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Completely Heartbroken... And Shattered To Bits
my bf told me he is coming back from holiday (to india) today but he hasnt come! i had a funny feeling that he wasnt going to come today because he sounded like he was lying...anyway, i called his mum and thats how i found out he isnt coming today...and his mum doesnt know about me but thats beside the point... anyway, all she said is "he is coming back in a week or a week and a half...don't you know..." and i said "no, i thought hes coming back today" and she said "well i dont know about that but i told him to cancel all tickets to london because of the bomb scares..." i called this random number that he called me from on monday and a man picked up and keeps saying "he's not here, call back in half an hour because he hasnt told me where he has gone." but when i'm trying to call, noone is picking up now. what should i do? ive been together with him for 4 years and i love him but i cant believe hes not coming back. and he didnt even let me know about it. im so heartbroken, all i can do is cry.
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foxiroxi
There's alot of problems at the moment with flights in and out of england.
but why didnt he atleast tell me. i mean, im trying to call that number that he called me from on monday and the man who picked up before said he'd gone out...surely im more important. and how do i find out when hes coming back? that guy is not picking up the phone.
How comes you've been with him 4 years and his mum doesn't know about you? Doesn't she know her sons in a relationship?
but why didnt he atleast tell me. i mean, im trying to call that number that he called me from on monday and the man who picked up before said he'd gone out...surely im more important. and how do i find out when hes coming back? that guy is not picking up the phone.
How comes you've been with him 4 years and his mum doesn't know about you? Doesn't she know her sons in a relationship?
believe it or not, no
Carl
By the sounds of it he was due to come home today, but his mum has made him hold on. I wouldn't worry too much.
but heres the thing...he was meant to have reached bombay on wednesday but hes at a place called rajkot today....and i swear the bombs happened on thursday
thats weird if she dont know maybe she's very strict
u were upset the other day cos he didnt text u right.
honestly love dont worry about it
my bf's going away for 2 wks next week and i honestly will try and stop myself from texting. not because it costs but because he needs to enjoy himself on holiday and he can be with me anytime he gets back. obviously wen u go on holiday and leave someone behind it shouldnt change things but the holiday could be a break from all life back home including u. personally id be impressed if my bf didnt talk to me on hols cos it would show he can get on and do other stuff and doesnt mean he cares any less
if ur bf was trying to avoid u wudnt he just stay out in india. it might be hard if u keep calling him out there cos his family there might not know about u either. uve been dating for a long time so unless u can recall something to make u think he wouldnt want to be with u then dont worry. take this time to go out with ur mates, have some u time and wen he gets back pop round or plan sthg special. oh and he probs honestly thought he was coming home today until his mum told him not to
its no good pondering or crying cause girls ALWAYS overanaylse the situation and get it all wrong. honestly guys dont think that complex but we can come to the oddest of conclusions
honestly love dont worry about it
my bf's going away for 2 wks next week and i honestly will try and stop myself from texting. not because it costs but because he needs to enjoy himself on holiday and he can be with me anytime he gets back. obviously wen u go on holiday and leave someone behind it shouldnt change things but the holiday could be a break from all life back home including u. personally id be impressed if my bf didnt talk to me on hols cos it would show he can get on and do other stuff and doesnt mean he cares any less
if ur bf was trying to avoid u wudnt he just stay out in india. it might be hard if u keep calling him out there cos his family there might not know about u either. uve been dating for a long time so unless u can recall something to make u think he wouldnt want to be with u then dont worry. take this time to go out with ur mates, have some u time and wen he gets back pop round or plan sthg special. oh and he probs honestly thought he was coming home today until his mum told him not to
its no good pondering or crying cause girls ALWAYS overanaylse the situation and get it all wrong. honestly guys dont think that complex but we can come to the oddest of conclusions
Anonymous
but heres the thing...he was meant to have reached bombay on wednesday but hes at a place called rajkot today....and i swear the bombs happened on thursday
800 km to the north....
I wouldn't worry too much, it sounds like you have some trust issues. I've no idea where my g/f is at the moment, but I'm not worried.
Carl
800 km to the north....
I wouldn't worry too much, it sounds like you have some trust issues. I've no idea where my g/f is at the moment, but I'm not worried.
I wouldn't worry too much, it sounds like you have some trust issues. I've no idea where my g/f is at the moment, but I'm not worried.
definitely think its trust
so what he's in a different place than he said to you although why would he need to lie! but u shudnt keep checking up on him like that.
think about this
what are you gaining from doing it? what difference does it make where he is right now?
From the uber-dramatic title, I thought you'd broken up or something.
To be honest, you're overreacting. So he couldn't come home today because his mom wouldn't let him, it's not his fault. And maybe he's really busy today, or he just doesn't have much access to a phone.
Don't act like he's dead or never coming back or like you've spilt up - he'll be home in a week!
To be honest, you're overreacting. So he couldn't come home today because his mom wouldn't let him, it's not his fault. And maybe he's really busy today, or he just doesn't have much access to a phone.
Don't act like he's dead or never coming back or like you've spilt up - he'll be home in a week!
Anonymous
my bf told me he is coming back from holiday (to india) today but he hasnt come! i had a funny feeling that he wasnt going to come today because he sounded like he was lying...anyway, i called his mum and thats how i found out he isnt coming today...and his mum doesnt know about me but thats beside the point... anyway, all she said is "he is coming back in a week or a week and a half...don't you know..." and i said "no, i thought hes coming back today" and she said "well i dont know about that but i told him to cancel all tickets to london because of the bomb scares..." i called this random number that he called me from on monday and a man picked up and keeps saying "he's not here, call back in half an hour because he hasnt told me where he has gone." but when i'm trying to call, noone is picking up now. what should i do? ive been together with him for 4 years and i love him but i cant believe hes not coming back. and he didnt even let me know about it. im so heartbroken, all i can do is cry.
I'd recommend that you end it now, for his sake.
Anonymous
my bf told me he is coming back from holiday (to india) today but he hasnt come! i had a funny feeling that he wasnt going to come today because he sounded like he was lying...anyway, i called his mum and thats how i found out he isnt coming today...and his mum doesnt know about me but thats beside the point... anyway, all she said is "he is coming back in a week or a week and a half...don't you know..." and i said "no, i thought hes coming back today" and she said "well i dont know about that but i told him to cancel all tickets to london because of the bomb scares..." i called this random number that he called me from on monday and a man picked up and keeps saying "he's not here, call back in half an hour because he hasnt told me where he has gone." but when i'm trying to call, noone is picking up now. what should i do? ive been together with him for 4 years and i love him but i cant believe hes not coming back. and he didnt even let me know about it. im so heartbroken, all i can do is cry.
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