cancels date - why?

I met a guy last weekend, we hit it off, and we had plans to get together tonight. We've been talking all week and were definitely gonna have a good time if ya know what I mean :wink:

But he txted me this morning saying he has to work late, by the time he's off work it will be too late b/c I told him I can't stay overnight with him. I asked him what time and he didn't answer. He also hasn't suggested another day to hang out.

Do you think he just decided to ditch me? He's been calling me all week, usually more than 2x each day. But now he won't even reply to my txts. Or do you think he's just too busy with work to talk right now?

Reply 1

username47781

maybe hes 2 busy to suggest a Plan B maybe give him a call when he comes home tonight

Reply 2

Mr @

seems like you're too easy for his likeing.

Reply 3

lilac!!

i think hes got bussy or something!! :biggrin:

i mean what idiot calls you for a week then suddenly leaves you :confused:

dont worry hes probably just got some work or something :smile:

Reply 4

username47781

ah yes didnt read that bit having a good time, yeah maybe hes uncomfortable like that, yes alot of guys like an easy girl to have a good time with in bed, but there are some who like many girls like taking their time.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Irony of Dying on Your Birthday

seems like you're too easy for his likeing.

hah well I don't think about sex like that. He actually has initiated all of the physical stuff and talk about sex. Even though I want to as well I have been more reserved than he has, saying "yeah well we'll see what happens."

Reply 6

janesmith

u met him one w/ and already spoke about sex. seems like u both just want a fix nothing serious

Reply 7

janesmith

and bearing that in mind what does it matter if u hassle him with text even more now cos ur not gonna see him again are u unless u become friends with beenfits

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

janesmith

u met him one w/ and already spoke about sex. seems like u both just want a fix nothing serious

yeah that's what we're both looking for! actually I'm more frustrated than hurt :p:

we met at a club and pulled. definitely not bf material!

Reply 9

janesmith

seduce him. go to his work with ur coat on and seduce him. then u walk out of his life and he will call u forever and ever.

honestly u shud go out tonight and cure ur frustration. im not implying that you'll get with anyone but u can find someone u like or better yet someone who you mite want to settle down with