First of all, apologies if I've posted this in the wrong sub forum. I usually avoid the debate forum but just wanted to see people's views on this.
So I was having a conversation with a person I met online and the statement in the title was one made by him. He then went on to say that just because he doesn't approve of their lifestyle it does not make him a homophobe because he doesn't want to do anything to make their life difficult. Live and let live being his motto. He also likened his dissaproval of homosexual activity to his dissaproval for people who cheat in a relationship. "It's not exactly the same thing.It's none of my business and I'm not going to tell them how to live but I'm not going to clap for them either"
Having thought about his views, I agree with him. He may not support homosexuality but he is not a homophobe. I'd like to see what other people make of this... so do you think his views are homophobic and do you agree or dissagree with the statement in the title?
I think its a logical statement to make. I don't agree with homosexuality, but ill fight to the death someone's right to be the sexuality they're comfortable with. Live and let live
There is nothing to approve or disapprove of.
Homosexuality is part of the normal spectrum of human sexuality. They don't have radically different lives to the majority of the population.
So instead of treating gay people like a different species that require my disapproval or approval, I treat them like a normal person.
I agree with the thread title, not everyone is okay with homosexuality and that's A-okay. That doesn't make them homophobic because they don't hate the person, just the act.
I completely agree with the statement. I feel uncomfortable about the act of homosexual acts but it's something they neither I can't change about them. At the end of the day its behind closed doors so I can live with it.
No, that's not homophobic.
That's not homophobia, it's tolerance. Accepting beliefs and actions that you don't agree with is the definition of tolerance.
Why does it always have to be one or the other? Sometimes people don't realise there is a middle ground.
I'm not against homosexuality. I'm not for homosexuality. I accept homosexuality. A friend of mine is bisexual and I treat her no different to my heterosexual friends. I'm not homophobic.
I couldn't care less whether it is or not. The problem is around the connotations of the word. It's a bit like racism, people fear the word and sometimes with good reason as it can ruin careers, reputations and such like.
To me, finding out someone doesn't support my sexuality (bisexual) is awful. Like, you can say you're not homophobic but surely not being 'homophobic' means supporting the fact that sexualities other than your own exist?
If you disapprove of someone elses sexuality then, I'm sorry but to me that makes you homophobic/biphobic etc.
That's the exact kind of attitude we need more of.
Not everyone is going to think in the same way, but if people simply come to terms with that and ignore the things that they find distasteful the world will be much better.
I find it nauseating and vomit inducing but I also support full equal rights and zero discrimination .
I don't 'support' homosexuality but If I saw anyone getting discriminated/abused or whatever because they are a homosexual I would jump right in and defend them.
Anyone who says you are homophobic just because you aren't all 'Gay Marriage WOOHOOO' is an idiot.