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Have you ever been blackmailed into doing something you didn't want to on webcam. Basically i got drunk and was persuaded to take my top off on webcam on msn then the next night the guy said if i didn't use my rabbit on webcam for him he would put the pics he had of me online, on TSR to be precise. I have never been in a situation like this before, eventually i did it because there are people i know on TSR and would hate for any pictures to get out.

A few minutes after, i blocked him and he emailed me saying how sorry he was and how much he hated himslef for making me do it, he also logged onto msn on an old addy still apologising profusely and begging me to forgive him.

I'm not majorly disturbed or affected my experience but it did upset me alot and i just needed to get it out of my system.

Has anyone else been in this situation before? How did you deal with it and what happened?

Reply 1

Nick R

10

Can't say I've been in the situation myself.

He's a total prick. Disgusting to treat someone like that. Me and my close friends always say that trust is the most important thing, and they have clearly violated it. They don't deserve to earn it back.

I wouldn't worry. I'm pretty sure mods would delete it. And I'm thinking it's illegal if he did it too? Maybe?

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

imho i think you should have a few strong words with him, sort of like telling him hes going to pay if he leaks the photos, but dont go begging him not to leak them otherwise he'll forever have something to blackmail you with.
then find a way to get him drunk and delete the pics off his pc :wink:

Reply 3

El Scotto

15

lol... so in order to stop him showing pics of your tits... you decided to stick a rabbit up your muff? and get yourself off instead. you know thats saved now as well and will probably be making its way to youtube as I type?

Reply 4

Profesh

20

Blackmail is, indeed, a criminal offence. However it will tend to place the victim in something of a Catch-22 predicament, which is precisely what the perpetrator relies upon.

A friend of mine fell victim to the most humilitating and debilitating blackmail at the behest of a former boyfriend; tantamount to rape, in fact, such was the level of duress involved.

Reply 5

1013

1

What a lowdown thing for a guy to do. Glad you're not too badly affected. I think you should leave it for a few days and then send him an email to let him know how you feel. He might be sorry now but you really need to drive it home so he doesn't do it to other, weaker minded girls.

Reply 6

_Jax_

1

Your main priority is the capture and disposal of any evidence.

Reply 7

Gem

14

I would rather have topless pics of me go on TSR (no matter how horrifying it may be for people to actually see me topless) than pictures of me and a 'rabbit' getitng put anywhere else. I would have refused. Sadly it's to late for you, but you've found out the hard way what a creep he is. I guess all you can do is learn from it :frown:

He sounds like a total pervert, who uses his PC and the internet to get sexual kicks, which he can't get in real life. I think you should move on and erase him from your life. You're better than that. :smile:

Reply 8

kabir_cob

This is totally disgusting... Don;t think you should forgive him....

Reply 9

indy_punk

1

If he was a TSR member id tell the forum and have him blocked.

Reply 10

blissy

15

If anything does happen, we will remove them as long as you direct us to it.

Reply 11

sexysax

14

That's horrible, I had a similar thing happen to me, where a guy was saying "flash for me" etc and everytime I said no and blocked him he'd come on with a different address and carry on. Really annoying :mad:

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Reply 12

username47781

20

Anonymous

Have you ever been blackmailed into doing something you didn't want to on webcam. Basically i got drunk and was persuaded to take my top off on webcam on msn then the next night the guy said if i didn't use my rabbit on webcam for him he would put the pics he had of me online, on TSR to be precise. I have never been in a situation like this before, eventually i did it because there are people i know on TSR and would hate for any pictures to get out.

A few minutes after, i blocked him and he emailed me saying how sorry he was and how much he hated himslef for making me do it, he also logged onto msn on an old addy still apologising profusely and begging me to forgive him.

I'm not majorly disturbed or affected my experience but it did upset me alot and i just needed to get it out of my system.

Has anyone else been in this situation before? How did you deal with it and what happened?

All the apologises in the world won;t make it right what he did was a disgrace and i doubt we'll catch him but if it does happen we do catch who it was i hope they get their backsides wooped

Next time say NO, don't even take your top off

Reply 13

Sithius

16

Anonymous

Have you ever been blackmailed into doing something you didn't want to on webcam. Basically i got drunk and was persuaded to take my top off on webcam on msn then the next night the guy said if i didn't use my rabbit on webcam for him he would put the pics he had of me online, on TSR to be precise. I have never been in a situation like this before, eventually i did it because there are people i know on TSR and would hate for any pictures to get out.

A few minutes after, i blocked him and he emailed me saying how sorry he was and how much he hated himslef for making me do it, he also logged onto msn on an old addy still apologising profusely and begging me to forgive him.

I'm not majorly disturbed or affected my experience but it did upset me alot and i just needed to get it out of my system.

Has anyone else been in this situation before? How did you deal with it and what happened?

Blackmailed? Got yourself into the situation.....

I don't do such things and as such, I have never been blackmailed.

Reply 14

Dr Doom

sorry to hear about that mate. drop him as a friend. or kick him in the nuts first

Reply 15

Mark S

17

Oh Dear. Tbh i have no sympathy. Everyone knows what they're doing when they're drunk to a certain extent. I know if im doing something ill regret however smashed i am. You got yourself into it, now you gotta get yourself out.

Flame away~

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

OP

Markus Angelsdaughter

Oh Dear. Tbh i have no sympathy. Everyone knows what they're doing when they're drunk to a certain extent. I know if im doing something ill regret however smashed i am. You got yourself into it, now you gotta get yourself out.

Flame away~

I know i got myself into it and i admit that, but what he did was still blackmail. I understand people not having sympathy, but i am grateful to those who do. I trusted him and he took advantage of that, he breached my trust and it'll take a lot for him to get it back, thats if i even let him try.

Reply 17

Gem

14

Anonymous

I know i got myself into it and i admit that, but what he did was still blackmail. I understand people not having sympathy, but i am grateful to those who do. I trusted him and he took advantage of that, he breached my trust and it'll take a lot for him to get it back, thats if i even let him try.

He doesn't deserve you speaking to him, let alone your trust.

Forget him, he's an idiot. You've learnt a big lesson, albeit in a harsh way, but you'll know never to do it again.

Reply 18

freshestkid

1

Anonymous

it'll take a lot for him to get it back, thats if i even let him try.

you're even considering it? **** that, get the slimy bastard given a spankin or at the very least thrown in a river or something. Also, blow up his house.

Reply 19

koftation

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