Ok, so i wouldn't say I was fat... but when I sit down my stomach creases and looks disgusting. I can pinch a good inch and I don't like it. I do like my beer and I dont exercise much so I'm not planning on getting rid of the belly. Was just wondering if girls are all that bothered by a little flab? Do they all want a big hunky six pack? A lot of my mates are rugby players and have toned bodies and I often feel embarrassed.. should I?
I'm really not bothered at all. I have never dated a guy with a totally toned stomach, and I actually prefer it that way. I'd feel awkward if my boy had a better/skinnier body than I!
I've had three boyfriends and not a single one had ripply abs. I recently dated who actually hat a kind of beer belly, but he had a gorgeous face and was otherwise really muscular (he did athletics).
So yeah, I don't really care, I weigh the whole package.
It has never bothered me or any of my girly mates as far as I know! But for some reason all the guys Ive been with have been really skinny/lanky and that gave me a complex >.<
personally i love my boyfriends stomach.. he's been letting himself go a bit before we started going out but i dont mind his stomach now.. i love it actually..
TIP: dont worry about it so much.. once a girl likes you for who you are, she will love ur belly too;-)
well just imagine sleeping next to a bloke with rippiling abs it wud be like sleeping next to a sac of potaotes i like skinny tall men so neithe muscly or squidy guys appeal to me any way
Six pack isn't necessary but it's a huge improvement to have a flat-ish, firm stomach. Clothes will look better on you, you will feel and look better as well.
If you don't like it, why don't you stop being so lazy and do some excercise? If you don't mind - good for you.
As long as YOU don't expect the girl to be completley perfect either then really, you have nothing to worry about and she'll fancy you just as much! What's stupid is guys that expect a girl to primp and preen herself to look nothing short of perfect but be nothing great to look at themselves. And some girls specifically go for guys with a bit of meat on them, my friend can't stand anyone slightly skinny!
Personally I don't see much of a problem with it, my boyfriends got a tiny bit of a belly, but that's just untoned stuff (he says he used to be overweight and lost it all, cuz he's skinny now which has just left him with a little bit of a belly). He hates it, but personally I love it, very nice to squish! hehe