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how do i ask him?

last night me and my boyfriend were playing around before we went to bed, and it got to the point wer he sed 'do u want to go any further', i know that he doesn't like using condoms and i'm not on the pill and i know that its not reliable him pulling out before he ejaculates but i duno how to say this to him because he obviously wanted to carry on... and it made me question whether he does want a child? i'm really not wanting this yet but wen the time arises i duno wot im suposed to say?last night i jst made up sum excuse to go to sleep., plz help,, thanx

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If you can't tell him to put on a condom, are you sure you're ready in your relationship to have sex?
"Do you want a child?"

Yeah, that should work.
What a confused person. From what you've written, it seems as though your relationship isn't yet sexual. Yet you "know" he's not a fan of condoms and actually WANT to entertain the thought of unprotected sex.

You're not ready for sex.
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Anonymous
last night me and my boyfriend were playing around before we went to bed, and it got to the point wer he sed 'do u want to go any further', i know that he doesn't like using condoms and i'm not on the pill and i know that its not reliable him pulling out before he ejaculates but i duno how to say this to him because he obviously wanted to carry on... and it made me question whether he does want a child? i'm really not wanting this yet but wen the time arises i duno wot im suposed to say?last night i jst made up sum excuse to go to sleep., plz help,, thanx


Satan give me strength, that I should not dash my own brains out on a lamp-post in protest at this relentless banality.
Anonymous
What a confused person. From what you've written, it seems as though your relationship isn't yet sexual. Yet you "know" he's not a fan of condoms and actually WANT to entertain the thought of unprotected sex.

You're not ready for sex.


Why post anonymous?
Sazarina88
Why post anonymous?

Why care?
generalebriety
Why care?


Did I ask you?
Profesh
Satan give me strength, that I should not dash my own brains out on a lamp-post in protest at this relentless banality.

:toofunny: Haven't seen you around for a while, Profesh.
Sazarina88
Did I ask you?

Did I not ask you? :rolleyes:
for the love of god DONT HAVE SEX WITHOUT A ****ING CONDOM!!!!!!!!!!
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Anonymous
last night me and my boyfriend were playing around before we went to bed, and it got to the point wer he sed 'do u want to go any further', i know that he doesn't like using condoms and i'm not on the pill and i know that its not reliable him pulling out before he ejaculates but i duno how to say this to him because he obviously wanted to carry on... and it made me question whether he does want a child? i'm really not wanting this yet but wen the time arises i duno wot im suposed to say?last night i jst made up sum excuse to go to sleep., plz help,, thanx


Err yes love, that's the reason why men don't want to use a condom - to have a child. Pssh.
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Sazarina88
Why post anonymous?


The next impertinent wretch who poses that question can expect a metaphysical suppository to the tune of 'minus sixty-eight'.
Profesh
The next impertinent wretch who poses that question can expect a metaphysical suppository to the tune of 'minus sixty-eight'.


But I knew who posted it... Never mind.

Can I just be a wretch please?
if he cant use protection DONT BE WITH HIM! cos when you get pregnant he's gonna run a mile
Not all men who don't use condoms want children, just tell him to wear one or you could just go on the pill.
If you don't have the courage to ask him why are you in a relationship with him?
Maybe he's Catholic...
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Just tell him straight that you MUST use a condom if you want to take this further. It's either sex WITH condom, or no sex at all. I think that might put it into perspective for him.
generalebriety
:toofunny: Haven't seen you around for a while, Profesh.


Then you must be blind cos he's been hopping around for days'.
Profesh
The next impertinent wretch who poses that question can expect a metaphysical suppository to the tune of 'minus sixty-eight'.



Huh?