Girl on Girl sex?

definitely ask your bf if he wants a threesome! he'd apprectiate that alot im sure :smile:

Reply 4

Nutter

6+6=6

contact our resident lesbians at the LGBT society for more help on your feminine issues.

You just HAD to say that, didn't you Teehar?

Reply 5

OP

6+6=6

contact our resident lesbians at the LGBT society for more help on your feminine issues.

thanks but am worried someone will see that soc in my soc list... that will cause problems for me as i dnt want to come out completely as yet.

Reply 6

i think u owe it to your bf to talk this through with him. he is your bf after all...

Reply 7

OP

yeah he's calling me in a bit. but i dont know what to say; he's such a homophobe!
he's at imperial too btw!

Reply 8

he's not going to be a homophobe about this! make sure that u tell him it is just curiousity, even if that's a lie.

whats he studying?

he is very unlikely to react badly about this, most guys would love to have a gf who is interested in experimenting with other girls... I wind my gf up all the time about it, im gunna get her one day, I just know it :wink:

Reply 9

dogtanian

I know it's your thread and all, but if you could avoid off topic chat, that would be appreciated. :smile:

As for your problem, I think you've got to work a few things out in your own head before you start suggesting threesomes. :/

Remember that it still counts if it's a girl, so don't go doing anything that could hurt your boyfriend.

Reply 10

dogtanian

I know it's your thread and all, but if you could avoid off topic chat, that would be appreciated. :smile:

As for your problem, I think you've got to work a few things out in your own head before you start suggesting threesomes. :/

Remember that it still counts if it's a girl, so don't go doing anything that could hurt your boyfriend.

yeah that last bit is what I was getting at about telling him... not sure I agree about the 3somes though, I think she would have an easier time with that then going it alone, also dont think there is much to work out, it is just a desire... could be wrong about that one though.

Reply 11

OP

well i dont think a threesome would be a good idea anyway as we're both a bit overbearing with each other. i dont intend to cheat on him- i just need to find a way to tell him, he made me break up with my best m8 because he found out he was gay. he really doesnt like gay people, which makes it all the more worse for me to find a way to tell him. what do i say? "i want to have sex with a girl. you're not doing enough for me. if you dont like it, u can piss off"... i dont know- i cant find a serious and yet gentle way to say it.

Reply 12

dogtanian

This is about her though, not whether her boyfriend would appreciate the suggestion.

If she's bi, then she's bi. Her boyfriend isn't going to change that fact.

That, and threesomes are an emotional minefield, and tend to be more about spicing up a straight couple's sex life, not about a woman's sexuality.

EDIT: OP, I think you need to really work out for yourself what you are before you go in all guns blazing, telling your boyfriend everything. If you don't know yourself, how can you be honest with him?

Reply 13

OP

and yeah, it is a desire; i want to experiment and find myself, and girls really turn me on. but i dont know what to do, act on the desire or wait for a freudian slip and do something that may possibly ruin my life?

Reply 14

OP

oh no im definately bi. or i suppose without the experience im only bi-curious, right?

Reply 15

dogtanian

This is about her though, not whether her boyfriend would appreciate the suggestion.

If she's bi, then she's bi. Her boyfriend isn't going to change that fact.

That, and threesomes are an emotional minefield, and tend to be more about spicing up a straight couple's sex life, not about a woman's sexuality.

EDIT: OP, I think you need to really work out for yourself what you are before you go in all guns blazing, telling your boyfriend everything. If you don't know yourself, how can you be honest with him?

yes they are a minefield! haha :biggrin:

i do think that she needs to tell him tho before she does anything. should make sure she doesnt make him feel inadequate, just make it seem like she is curious.

Reply 16

OP

i AM here, you know!!
so i should make out to him that im curious? i can hear him now. "repress it, its wrong. completely unnatural. your just confused. it will go away."

Reply 17

dogtanian

Everyone has different definitions. Unfortunately.

Do you want to stay with your boyfriend? If you want to go out and play the field (as it were) and find out more about your sexuality, I don't think you should be with your boyfriend to do that. And does he need to know all the details if that's the case?

Straight, gay or bi; if your mind is wandering elsewhere too much, then you should probably question how serious you are about this bloke. It's the same as if you were starting to think about other men a bit too much, really.

EDIT: I just realised just how much that sounds like I'm trying to push you away from your boyfriend. I'm not at all. I just think you need to have a think. And IF you decide to act on it, your boyfrind should be out of the picture, in my opinion.

Reply 18

Anonymous

oh no im definately bi. or i suppose without the experience im only bi-curious, right?

this is clearly something u have spent some time developing in your own mind. unless u think there is a good reason not to, i would definitely tell your bf u are curious about a lesbian experience.... u never know how he will take it, but worst case senario is you lose a bf who is not satifying your desires, assuming you let him down properly and he's not a bastard who publicises. if he does you can publicise that he turned you gay cuz he's **** or something lol as revenge.

edit: forgot a negative :smile:

Reply 19