oops!!

jen1987

ive fallen for my best friend, hes amazing, but i dnt want to feel like i do because im scared of ruining the best friendship ive ever had! but man hes so hot and fu***ing incredible :biggrin:

!! just had to get that out!!

Reply 1

slk999

15

Just don't let it! Simple as that!

Reply 2

jen1987

OP

but maybe being with him could be even more amazing than our friendship

Reply 3

slk999

15

I'd stress the word 'could'. It depends, I mean, if you're acting with him like you're already together- endless flirting etc. then it could be no bad thing. But there's a fine line between friendship and romance.

Reply 4

Mark S

17

jen1987

ive fallen for my best friend, hes amazing, but i dnt want to feel like i do because im scared of ruining the best friendship ive ever had! but man hes so hot and fu***ing incredible :biggrin:

!! just had to get that out!!

I feel the same way about you, dont worry.

Reply 5

hippieglitter

19

Just flirt wth him and see if he flirts back if he does chances are he likes you too, thats the way it happened with me although not intentionally cos i tend to flirt shamelessly with anybody.

Reply 6

lala_land

hippieglitter

Just flirt wth him and see if he flirts back if he does chances are he likes you too, thats the way it happened with me although not intentionally cos i tend to flirt shamelessly with anybody.

Yeah i'd start with jokey flirting then move it up a notch and see how he reacts. if its good then why not go ahead and ask him out? If you guys are really good mates now chances are if you do break up you'll continue to be good mates after.

Reply 7

Sazarina88

11

If he's your best friend, I expect you really don't want to lose him as that and it's a possibility that if you told him how you felt you may.

My advice: Leave things as they are.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Alternatively, just go for it. That's what happened with me and one of my best friends (girl) at uni, now we're going out and it's made everything about our relationship stronger, and everything that was good is now better, so give it a shot! if you don't, youll just be asking yourself 'what if' type stuff for ages.

Reply 9

Solid_L

11

I'd say go for it :biggrin:

But perhaps I'm just a romantic :p:

- my love life is working out perfectly at the moment lol, and think everyone elses would to.

Hope it all goes well for you :biggrin:

Reply 10

MickeyG

Theres only one solution. Get him drunk then shamelessly throw yourself at him. :biggrin:

Reply 11

phoenixv

i'd suggest going out together more (alone without any other frens) n get to know each other more, be more comfortable ard each other... but why not? just try not to take things too fast.

Reply 12

fluffypuffmarshmellows

MickeyG

Theres only one solution. Get him drunk then shamelessly throw yourself at him. :biggrin:

that would be really funny. :biggrin:

thats one option but if he remembers and ask you about it then you screwed. What are you going to say when he asks? Truthfully tell him you like him? I think you could get away with it if you were both really drunk. :wink:

But I’d find something better to do.

Reply 13

Anonymous #2

lala_land

Yeah i'd start with jokey flirting then move it up a notch and see how he reacts. if its good then why not go ahead and ask him out? If you guys are really good mates now chances are if you do break up you'll continue to be good mates after.

this whole situation happened to me..... my best friend ( a girl) fancied me and asked me out but i had to say no because I know when i went out with a girl and we were friends we then broke up and she has always been funny around me.......................... its a risky situation

Reply 14

Solid_L

11

Anonymous

this whole situation happened to me..... my best friend ( a girl) fancied me and asked me out but i had to say no because I know when i went out with a girl and we were friends we then broke up and she has always been funny around me.......................... its a risky situation

Am I the only one think think it is ridiculous to be thinking of breaking up with a girl before you've even gone out with her?? :p:

i went out with best friend and it was a big mistake. because we were so good being best friends we kinda assumed that we'd be good as bf and gf. we weren't. just be really careful and make sure it's what you really want.

lou xxx

Reply 17

Mattmoy_2000

9

Get drunk, try it on, blame it on drink if he says no. If he's a good enough friend he'll not hold it against you. If he does, well, **** happens. Don't let the crush crush you, it'll just make you feel depressed.

Reply 18

Anonymous #3

okay first.... dont get drunk..... second would u say that you guys are in the same league or he is above you, if your below him dont try it on, if ur the same/above that prob means he liked u 2 begin with and u slipped into the friends stage, so then i would suggest u try it on

Reply 19

MickeyG

Anonymous

okay first.... dont get drunk..... second would u say that you guys are in the same league or he is above you, if your below him dont try it on, if ur the same/above that prob means he liked u 2 begin with and u slipped into the friends stage, so then i would suggest u try it on

Aww aren't you shallow. Not all relationships are made up of people "in the same league", so that really shouldnt have to be a factor.

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