I feel so lonely-dont think im desperate

This really isn't the best thing to be doing when you've lost your girlfriend IMO.

Get out there, find new hobbies, make new friends that you can meet up with easily, socialise!

Reply 2

OP

Get out there on my own....? my 4 best friends are away.

Reply 3

Sazarina88

Why not?

You're not helping yourself by thinking the way you are.

Go the gym, join a club, anything where you can meet new people.

I see you're 17, are you just about to go to uni or last year of school?

Reply 4

OP

2nd year college......so last year of school.

Reply 5

Profesh

20

kacas

Hi,

Since loosing my girlfriend I feel so crappy, 95% of my friends I see alot are away and I want some people to talk to.
This is really sad but is there anyone that would like to befriend me on there msn list.
Looking for males or females, who just like general chats about stuff, or are single and don't wanna talk about girlfriends or boyfriends or if you do law, that would be cool!
If you live in hampshire or in the southampton sorta region that would be cool.

I wouldnt ask usually but I'm desperate, Some of you might think I'm sad but this will help me to get a few new friends.
Thanks :tsr2:

If you can pm me that would be cool.

Yes; because that's a tenable approach to becoming less insular.

Reply 6

OP

O.K so what about today when I can't get out? what am I meant to be doing?
I'm waiting in for a parcel!
Yet many of you just say 'go out', your mind can go mad when your on your own!
Yet hardly any of you are selfless enough to talk to me for a little while.

Reply 7

~NC~

I guess you have to keep your self amused. You have to pass the time until your friends are back. Chat here on TSR, read a book, play soilitaire, watch a film, dance to some music, phone someone, write a story, plot to take over the world if you have to :p:

Keep yourself occupied and before you know it there will be people you can talk to. How long is it till your friends return?

Reply 8

OP

umm........saturday I think.
Well the ex is back thursday, so thats gonna be fun and games.

Reply 9

xxcalicoxx

Hey,

did you get my pm? Cant remember if i sent it or not sorry!
:smile:

Reply 10

~NC~

Saturday isnt to far away. The time will fly, just kep yourself busy, stay in today, go out tomorrow, perhaps go the gym or something. And as for thursday your just gonna have to deal with it as it comes, try and avoid if possible, but just keep yourself occupied and dont let yourself get worked up by it.

Reply 11

generalebriety

16

kacas

O.K so what about today when I can't get out? what am I meant to be doing?
I'm waiting in for a parcel!
Yet many of you just say 'go out', your mind can go mad when your on your own!
Yet hardly any of you are selfless enough to talk to me for a little while.

Wow, way to brand a whole forum as selfish. :yy:

I'd call it nothing short of altruistic that we'd all love to help you but we know that it's in your own interests to go out and find some friends. Stubborn, yes; selfish, no. However, I do understand you can go mad on your own (because I very often do :biggrin:

), so... PM me if you want. :smile:

But tomorrow you're going out! :mad:

Reply 12

OP