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My gf's spent more time with her ex than with me since she got home from holiday. They're 'friends'. Although her ex is still madly in love with her. I don't really know what I'm asking for here, but it's getting to me, and she knows it. Am I being stupid?
Reply 2
Yes she knows. And shes admitted that when she's with her she still isn't over her.
I'm probably being stupid, and I've told her how I feel but it does hurt me. I don't want to be posessive, anyone else- ok. But cmon, her ex who's still in love with her?!
I'm probably being stupid, and I've told her how I feel but it does hurt me. I don't want to be posessive, anyone else- ok. But cmon, her ex who's still in love with her?!
Reply 3
i think you've got a right, tell her exactly how you feel - if she wants to be with you she'll realise how you feel and how it's affecting you and change her ways..
Reply 4
No your not being stupid, you are quite right to be unhappy about this, if she really loved you she wouldn't be going off with her ex and she's even confessed shes not over you, i'd have it out with her and ask her what she really wants because it seems she doesn't know.
Reply 5
She claims she does and its me. Me, her, and her ex sat down and she said that she loved me, wanted to be with me and that although she wasn't always completely over her ex, she knows its me she wants.
Reply 6
then if she wants you why does she keep running off to her ex
Reply 8
because their friends?
And no one in this love triangle is a man
And no one in this love triangle is a man
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My gf's spent more time with her ex than with me since she got home from holiday. They're 'friends'. Although her ex is still madly in love with her. I don't really know what I'm asking for here, but it's getting to me, and she knows it. Am I being stupid?
I hate to say this but it really sounds like she's not concerned about you or your feelings. In my opinion, she shouldn't be acting this way, firstly because her ex still has feelings for her, secondly because she admits to not being over her ex, and thirdly because she knows it upsets you. She is being incredibly inconsiderate. It really is a love triangle going on here, I think you should put your foot down and give her an ultimatum. It sounds like you can do better!
Reply 10
I wouldn't mind as much, as today was something she couldnt change, but she's only texted once. And normally she texts alot more than that. I guess you're right, thanks.
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