Nose shape important?

Oh come on. The nose is a very noticeable feature of the face, especially when viewed from the side, and it's located slap-bang in the middle. How could it not be important when determining appearance?

That's rubbish.

When you look at someone, what's the most pronounced feature on their face? The nose. Granted, one may not focus in on it since it's hardly the most appealing aspect of the human form, but irregularity or ill-proportioned noses certainly do reduce the desirabilty of a given individual, in general. Therefore what I said was not "rubbish" and you can kindly stfu.

Anyone who claims not to care about looks in the opposite sex is a liar. Certainly, the interpretation of other people's appearance is totally subjective, but w*****s who claim "not to care about looks, it's all about personality blah blah blah" when assessing potential mates are absolute frauds. It's in our instincts and no amount of bull****ting will convince me otherwise.

im a girl. i go thru phases where im really bothered about the shape of my nose. i hate seeing photos of my profile an looking at myself on video cam as all i notice is this horrible shape of my nose protruding out and ruining my appearance. it's curvy, with a hook shape on the bridge, so doesn't just go straight down like most peoples.
i wouldn't want surgery as ive seen what they do-it looks awful, plus the after effect of pain. i just dont know what else i could do. im finding it hard to not be bothered an just accept it. i keep feeling its the main factor that will put guys off me.
guys- would you find this nose shape very unattractive? would it put you off? or is it unimportant compared with other features/personality?
anyone else feel the same?
thanx

It's crap, believe me.

The fact is, it still remains a small part of someones looks.

When you look at someone, what's the most pronounced feature on their face? The nose. Granted, one may not focus in on it since it's hardly the most appealing aspect of the human form, but irregularity or ill-proportioned noses certainly do reduce the desirabilty of a given individual, in general. Therefore what I said was not "rubbish" and you can kindly stfu.

Anyone who claims not to care about looks in the opposite sex is a liar. Certainly, the interpretation of other people's appearance is totally subjective, but w*****s who claim "not to care about looks, it's all about personality blah blah blah" when assessing potential mates are absolute frauds. It's in our instincts and no amount of bull****ting will convince me otherwise.

When you look at someone, what's the most pronounced feature on their face? The nose. Granted, one may not focus in on it since it's hardly the most appealing aspect of the human form, but irregularity or ill-proportioned noses certainly do reduce the desirabilty of a given individual, in general. Therefore what I said was not "rubbish" and you can kindly stfu.

Anyone who claims not to care about looks in the opposite sex is a liar. Certainly, the interpretation of other people's appearance is totally subjective, but w*****s who claim "not to care about looks, it's all about personality blah blah blah" when assessing potential mates are absolute frauds. It's in our instincts and no amount of bull****ting will convince me otherwise.

What if I told you that when I first met my bf, I didn't find him attractive at all? And what if I told you, the first time I met my ex, his looks really didn't appeal much to me? It took me a year to get over my ex, and my current bf I think I might wanna marry one day. So not caring about looks can actually happen methinks. Looks grow on you after you start liking the person, I've found.

Why did you start going out with him if you didn't find him attractive at all?! Surely the whole catalyst for sexual relationships (by that i mean non-platonic) is sexual attraction? Certainly resultant love is not due to such a factor, but why be with someone who doesn't fit the bill, as it were?

Because looks really do not matter lol. If I was attracted to a person's personality, I will not let their looks get in the way. Looks are so temporary - I mean, when you're 40 and no longer so good-looking, would it matter to your spouse? No. So why let such a factor affect who you go for in a relationship, seeing as it's an unimportant factor that affects not a thing. Although I don't go into relationships for fun - don't believe in that - I go into a relationship looking for something serious, a relationship that is eventually going to hopefully end in marriage. So perhaps that's what makes it different. And as for fitting the bill - exactly, what are you looking for? I'm looking for whether I could marry this person, looking for someone who would love me as I love them, eventually. So why would looks matter?

I went out with my bf cus I loved his personality. After a while I found his looks to be average, and after dating him his looks grew on me so that now I find him very cute. But I know objectively speaking, he's only average and not the sort of looks I'd personally go for.

I find his nose really cute now lol. It really grew on me

Because looks really do not matter lol. If I was attracted to a person's personality, I will not let their looks get in the way. Looks are so temporary - I mean, when you're 40 and no longer so good-looking, would it matter to your spouse? No. So why let such a factor affect who you go for in a relationship, seeing as it's an unimportant factor that affects not a thing. Although I don't go into relationships for fun - don't believe in that - I go into a relationship looking for something serious, a relationship that is eventually going to hopefully end in marriage. So perhaps that's what makes it different. And as for fitting the bill - exactly, what are you looking for? I'm looking for whether I could marry this person, looking for someone who would love me as I love them, eventually. So why would looks matter?

I went out with my bf cus I loved his personality. After a while I found his looks to be average, and after dating him his looks grew on me so that now I find him very cute. But I know objectively speaking, he's only average and not the sort of looks I'd personally go for. Trust me, looks really do grow on you once you fancy that person.

Because looks really do not matter lol. If I was attracted to a person's personality, I will not let their looks get in the way. Looks are so temporary - I mean, when you're 40 and no longer so good-looking, would it matter to your spouse? No. So why let such a factor affect who you go for in a relationship, seeing as it's an unimportant factor that affects not a thing. Although I don't go into relationships for fun - don't believe in that - I go into a relationship looking for something serious, a relationship that is eventually going to hopefully end in marriage. So perhaps that's what makes it different. And as for fitting the bill - exactly, what are you looking for? I'm looking for whether I could marry this person, looking for someone who would love me as I love them, eventually. So why would looks matter?

I went out with my bf cus I loved his personality. After a while I found his looks to be average, and after dating him his looks grew on me so that now I find him very cute. But I know objectively speaking, he's only average and not the sort of looks I'd personally go for. Trust me, looks really do grow on you once you fancy that person.

Okay that's fine, everyone's different I guess. I'm glad that you have such a great relationship.
One question, though. If looks and appearance are so unimportant, could you see yourself with a woman? Provided she had a wonderful personality, etc.

im a girl. i go thru phases where im really bothered about the shape of my nose. i hate seeing photos of my profile an looking at myself on video cam as all i notice is this horrible shape of my nose protruding out and ruining my appearance. it's curvy, with a hook shape on the bridge, so doesn't just go straight down like most peoples.
i wouldn't want surgery as ive seen what they do-it looks awful, plus the after effect of pain. i just dont know what else i could do. im finding it hard to not be bothered an just accept it. i keep feeling its the main factor that will put guys off me.
guys- would you find this nose shape very unattractive? would it put you off? or is it unimportant compared with other features/personality?
anyone else feel the same?
thanx

Lol no can't see myself with a woman cus women are simply different - nothing specific that you can put a finger on but they act differently and react differently to men. And as interesting as the female figure is (love studying human body in terms of Art) I don't find the body sexually attractive. I mean, ok, if I'm looking for my potential husband, I really would rather hope he had a penis, as any woman would! lol.