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Is bleeding when you lose your virginity normal

I always thought it was standard (hymen breaking, etc) but I've seen quite a few posts saying that if you do it properly you shouldn't bleed, as your hymen stretches, and people only bleed because it's not gentle enough.
So yeah, is this the case?

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Reply 1
If you stick a foot up there it's bound to bleed.
If you had sex previously with yr bf but never told your family or your new hubby then no you won't.
Original post by Anonymous
I always thought it was standard (hymen breaking, etc) but I've seen quite a few posts saying that if you do it properly you shouldn't bleed, as your hymen stretches, and people only bleed because it's not gentle enough.
So yeah, is this the case?


Trust me, its normal :smile:
if you're scared just get really drunk so you can't feel it :biggrin:
I bled so much I started to feel dizzy

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Original post by donutaud15
I bled so much I started to feel dizzy

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Oh god, really? That sounds awful!
No you can break your hymen from horse riding..
Original post by donutaud15
I bled so much I started to feel dizzy

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So, it looks like i'll be joining my local monastery now...
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Original post by Anonymous
Oh god, really? That sounds awful!


Yeah. It was particularly bad for me but I don't think it's the same for everyone.

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Original post by Lean69
If you stick a foot up there it's bound to bleed.


I...I think you're doing it wrong.

Yes OP it's normal.
Original post by brownsugar-xx
So, it looks like i'll be joining up to my local monastery now...


I don't think it's the same for everyone. My husband suggested using a vibrator as it can help.

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Reply 12
Original post by Precious Illusions
I...I think you're doing it wrong.

Yes OP it's normal.

Wanna show me
Original post by donutaud15
I don't think it's the same for everyone

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did he stick it in all at once or go slow? i'm curious which ways better, is it like ripping off a band-aid?
Original post by brownsugar-xx
did he stick it in all at once or go slow? i'm curious which ways better, is it like ripping off a band-aid?


Both. He tried to go slow but it was hurting more and he couldn't go in. So tried sticking it quickly, it worked but I bled a lot, felt dizzy and was in too much pain so we stopped. Didn't help that he was a bit too big for me.

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Original post by donutaud15
Both. He tried to go slow but it was hurting more and he couldn't go in. So tried sticking it quickly, it worked but I bled a lot, felt dizzy and was in too much pain so we stopped. Didn't help that he was a bit too big for me.

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thanks :afraid:
Only if your having sex with me :wink:.
Original post by Anonymous
Oh god, really? That sounds awful!


Supposedly it's "only" around a tea spoonful or so of blood, but blood has a habit of leaking,so it looks like a lot. I think some girls dont bleed, but some do?

Also,dont ask me how I know this :biggrin: I just do - probably from cracked.com articles
Original post by brownsugar-xx
thanks :afraid:


To be fair though I wasn't comfortable with the guy. I think it depends on that a lot. More comfortable means relaxing better. I think it would have been different if it was with my husband.

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Original post by Anonymous
I always thought it was standard (hymen breaking, etc) but I've seen quite a few posts saying that if you do it properly you shouldn't bleed, as your hymen stretches, and people only bleed because it's not gentle enough.
So yeah, is this the case?

Its normal.

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