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soo depressed
well ummm. my girlfriend broke up with me like 7 months ago and we went out for a year, and i'm 15, she is also. i'm very proud in my person.
imiss her so much as she was my only girlfriend, and the only girl i have ever kissed, made love to etc. we were best friends and we didn't really have other friends. we were very close.
it was my fault we broke up, and i know that but it hurts me to see her now.
since she used to be soo innocent and like my daughter (in my mind) and now she has all these friends, while i do not. i don't exactly mind this- but i ahet to see what she is like now, now she thinks getting drunk is fun (you understand..) and she smokes and pull random guys and had soo many guy friends then girl ones. she not 'fit', but i would call her pretty.
anyways, it just hurts me so when i think about her, i daydream about her, and tell her jokes and lol i'm so sad. but i just feel so bad, like i won't get another girlfriend, and if i do, it won't be the same, and i think i am attractive, but i'm not like popular, and girls don't seem interested in me (or tell me).
well i don't want to write too much, but how can i forget about her? and move on? since it has been seven months- a long time i think, for which any other 15 year old hormone raging stud (lol no) should have forgotton about her or at least moved on...
imiss her so much as she was my only girlfriend, and the only girl i have ever kissed, made love to etc. we were best friends and we didn't really have other friends. we were very close.
it was my fault we broke up, and i know that but it hurts me to see her now.
since she used to be soo innocent and like my daughter (in my mind) and now she has all these friends, while i do not. i don't exactly mind this- but i ahet to see what she is like now, now she thinks getting drunk is fun (you understand..) and she smokes and pull random guys and had soo many guy friends then girl ones. she not 'fit', but i would call her pretty.
anyways, it just hurts me so when i think about her, i daydream about her, and tell her jokes and lol i'm so sad. but i just feel so bad, like i won't get another girlfriend, and if i do, it won't be the same, and i think i am attractive, but i'm not like popular, and girls don't seem interested in me (or tell me).
well i don't want to write too much, but how can i forget about her? and move on? since it has been seven months- a long time i think, for which any other 15 year old hormone raging stud (lol no) should have forgotton about her or at least moved on...
Man your only 15, seriously you sound like your life is over, but your so young, you got a lot to live for, try and forget about her, i mean at 15 neither of you were probably ready for a proper relationship, try and keep yourself busy maybe find a club that interests you.
Time is the great healer. There's nothing specific you can do except get involved with other things and try to meet new people.
But good luck
But good luck
thanks but like,i'm not good at meeting ppl. or starting conversations. i think i am like the best thing in the world, but when i am with other people, i see what they have and i feel so useless.
don't worry at 15 i wasn't but once say you join a club it becomes easier to socialise, it will get better, just if anyone starts a conversation with you just listen and ask questions yourself.
You had sex before you were 15?
I'll be lucky if someone who's not a member of my family looks at me without contempt before I'm 18. Trust me, we all feel like that. If you've never had a boy/girlfriend you feel like you'll never have one, if you've had one you feel like you'll never replace them, and if you've had more you feel like you'll never find someone who's right for you. In the end I'd wait till you go to uni or get a job before complaining too much about that. It bothered me a lot too when I was younger (and this is 16-17 now) but now I'm nearly 18 I'm not bothered any more.
Sadly, there is some truth in the popular adults' perception of young teenagers being immature... you just don't find that out till you grow up.
I'll be lucky if someone who's not a member of my family looks at me without contempt before I'm 18. Trust me, we all feel like that. If you've never had a boy/girlfriend you feel like you'll never have one, if you've had one you feel like you'll never replace them, and if you've had more you feel like you'll never find someone who's right for you. In the end I'd wait till you go to uni or get a job before complaining too much about that. It bothered me a lot too when I was younger (and this is 16-17 now) but now I'm nearly 18 I'm not bothered any more.
Sadly, there is some truth in the popular adults' perception of young teenagers being immature... you just don't find that out till you grow up.
I know what you meant but it's a bit odd that you saw your girlfriend like a daughter.
I agree it is hard to see someone who you were so close to change and act differently once they've broken away from you. My advice is to take that confuson and direct it into anger. Accept that she has changed and you can't like her for who she is anymore, she's not the same person she was when you were together. I think this will help you to move on and stop pining for her. You need to try and get out and start having fun, although I understand that can be hard.
I agree it is hard to see someone who you were so close to change and act differently once they've broken away from you. My advice is to take that confuson and direct it into anger. Accept that she has changed and you can't like her for who she is anymore, she's not the same person she was when you were together. I think this will help you to move on and stop pining for her. You need to try and get out and start having fun, although I understand that can be hard.
i saw her s a daughter like i got angry with her ad 'told her off' if she got drunk or something. we were kind of contolling.
yes, i had sex like 16 something times when i was 14, and not once since i am 15 (when we arn't going out).
i have directed it into anger, also sadness and kept it in. i have nothing really to lt it out on. i think about her all the time. like 2 hours a day while i lie in bed, it's getting worse, i think it is just becasue it is the summer holiday.
-but i ony think of the good things about her now. since obviously, if i think about how she is now, or what she can be like mean, it's depressing.
i am too proud to ask her out again- not that i would want to. but it's an example. - i don't want to get drunk and pull girls i hardly know and be bisexual like her. i respect myself too much.
thanks
yes, i had sex like 16 something times when i was 14, and not once since i am 15 (when we arn't going out).
i have directed it into anger, also sadness and kept it in. i have nothing really to lt it out on. i think about her all the time. like 2 hours a day while i lie in bed, it's getting worse, i think it is just becasue it is the summer holiday.
-but i ony think of the good things about her now. since obviously, if i think about how she is now, or what she can be like mean, it's depressing.
i am too proud to ask her out again- not that i would want to. but it's an example. - i don't want to get drunk and pull girls i hardly know and be bisexual like her. i respect myself too much.
thanks
unfortunatly at 15 you can;t tell her how to live her life, lots of people do things like get drunk at 15 its just how it is i'm afraid
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i am too proud to ask her out again- not that i would want to. but it's an example. - i don't want to get drunk and pull girls i hardly know and be bisexual like her. i respect myself too much.
thanks
i am too proud to ask her out again- not that i would want to. but it's an example. - i don't want to get drunk and pull girls i hardly know and be bisexual like her. i respect myself too much.
thanks
It's part of being 15. She's just experimenting with life. Yes, some people go too far, but loads do crazy things when they're 15. They'll be shocked and embarrased about their behaviour when they get to 19 and look back on it, but until then, it's part of that stage of life for some people. You just have to let her go and do as she pleases, you can't tell her what to do or control her.
And as for yourself, you should try and move on - you're only 15, though you will likely remember her all your life, there are other people out there who hold the potential for new relationships, so you just need to get out there and see. If you're 15, you're coming to the end of school? Maybe when you switch to the next part of your life after school, you will find new and exciting things.
To be honest, it sounds as if the problem lies more within you rather than the fact that you guys are now broken up. Dont try and blame your depression on the relationship but instead try to focus on other positive things.
Move on. As you get older, youll look back on these things and see them in a different way. Getting depressed about it isnt going to help things. As I said, focus on other positive things in your life.
Move on. As you get older, youll look back on these things and see them in a different way. Getting depressed about it isnt going to help things. As I said, focus on other positive things in your life.
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