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bin goin out with my gf for few months now and get on well. but neither of us have the balls to start kissin etc with each other when we're by ourselves. don't no how to initiate it. wan tot speak 2 her about it but don't want to seem like i'm desperate for it (lol) if u get me.

sorry if i haven't made it clear we have kissed loads but always at the end of a night or day out. its not really happening betweenthe time.

any tips much appreciated

cheers

Reply 1

lala_land

You won't seem like your desperate, if you want to kiss after all you've been going out for months now. I'd just keep giving her signals like looking at her lips when shes speaking etc, and then when the moments right just go for it, you'll be nervous at first but you'll soon get over it. Whatever you do don't ask her if you can kiss her etc though it puts most girls off

Reply 2

username47781

20

i don't really follow that with all that text talk but let me try and make sense of it, you and your girlfriend are nervous about kissing each other right? well if it's your first partner then its understandable, take things slowly there's no rush and just try and relax.

Reply 3

supernova2

11

just bite the bullet and do it.

Reply 4

Segat1

16

Sometimes, just sitting there and putting your hand to her face is enough. Or beckoning witha finger, like you have something to tell them works well :biggrin:

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Tell her to close her eyes. then kiss her.

easy

Reply 6

Pandamonk

5

supernova2

just bite the bullet and do it.

Don't do any biting!! :biggrin:

Reply 7

squigaletta

whats wrong with a bit of biting?!?!

Reply 8

MickeyG

Anonymous

Tell her to close her eyes. then kiss her.

easy

As long as you leave it at kissing then that would be ok. Anything more would be assault :smile:

Reply 9

TKR

15

huh? you havent kissed her yet?

Reply 10

Kate.

15

TKR

huh? you havent kissed her yet?

That's what I was thinking...

Thread starter: how old are you both?

Reply 11

skinnyboy

OP

bin goin out with my gf for few months now and get on well. but neither of us have the balls to start kissin etc with each other when we're by ourselves. don't no how to initiate it. wan tot speak 2 her about it but don't want to seem like i'm desperate for it (lol) if u get me.
we've both just turned 18 in last 4months

sorry if i haven't made it clear we have kissed loads but always at the end of a night or day out. its not really happening betweenthe time.

any tips much appreciated

cheers

Reply 12

MC

1

Kate.

That's what I was thinking...

Thread starter: how old are you both?

Might help to read the entire post... :wink:

thread merged

OP

bin goin out with my gf for few months now and get on well. but neither of us have the balls to start kissin etc with each other when we're by ourselves. don't no how to initiate it. wan tot speak 2 her about it but don't want to seem like i'm desperate for it (lol) if u get me.
we've both bin 18 for bout 4months now

sorry if i haven't made it clear we have kissed loads but always at the end of a night or day out. its not really happening betweenthe time.

any tips much appreciated

cheers

Reply 15

sarahb

the only way throught that i can see is that you just have the guts and do it! just start kising her! go 4it! your the guy -make the move :smile:

it wont be as scary as u think!!! honest! :wink:

Reply 16

bunthulhu

14

This is the third time you've made the same thread? What's wrong with one? Stop spamming.

I don't understand the problem to be honest :confused:

If you feel awkward about kissing each other after being together for a few months, and at 18, have you thought that maybe you just don't click in that way?

Reply 17

Sazarina88

11

It doesn't sound like you're actually scared of kissing her as you've said you've kissed loads, the problem is that you don't know when is appropriate? Correct?

Well, I'd say if you get an instinct that you should kiss her, then kiss her! Perhaps if you're just hanging out, turn to her and kiss her, she's hardly going to mind!

Reply 18

zav

14

Sazarina88

It doesn't sound like you're actually scared of kissing her as you've said you've kissed loads, the problem is that you don't know when is appropriate? Correct?

Well, I'd say if you get an instinct that you should kiss her, then kiss her! Perhaps if you're just hanging out, turn to her and kiss her, she's hardly going to mind!

ditto i think thats the only way you will break this barrier by just doing it. Although it is a valid point that at 18 and the amount of time you have invested there may be a spark missing?

Reply 19

alexjoh1

when on the couch or somewhere comfortable, just cuddle/snuggle type thing and it really should develop from there...if not, just go for it! if she objects, that's a perfect opportunity to bring it up with her in the most gentleman-like way possible!!

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