cant trust b/f

i have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2yrs now, but a few months ago we had a huge fall out and hardly spoke for 2 weeks, when we eventualy sorted things out he said he had to tell me he had feelings for another girl at a party he had gone to the previos week and that it would make him feel guilty if he hadnt have told me. i asked if if thats all that he wanted to tell me thinkin the worst but he assured me it was only feelings and he was v drunk. a month later my friend told me she had heard ppl saying they'd seen hm kissing another girl at this party, i questioned him about this later on and he denied it but i knew he was lying so persisted, he then tld me it was only a kiss and meant nothing and that it was my fault it happened bcoz it was the 1st girl who had been nice to him since we'd fallen out. i later learnt this was 1 of his ex's, even thought its months on now and we have sorted everything out i cant help thinking about things and i dont trust him at all. he was so gd at covering things up that anythng could be happening and i wouldnt know. i dont know what to do :frown:

Reply 1

squigaletta

talk to him about it, tell him how little you trust him, and that its his responsibility to win your trust back

Reply 2

lala_land

squigaletta

talk to him about it, tell him how little you trust him, and that its his responsibility to win your trust back

exactly. and if he can't do that he's not worth it

Reply 3

lilac!!

ya i agree tell him how you feel, dont be over the top mad but just explain to him how much this as hurt you

Reply 4

username47781

yeah you need to talk to him about it if he don't listen then i'd leave him

Reply 5

*starry_eyed_*

confront him. talk to him. a relationship won't work without trust, not that you need me to tell you.

Reply 6

ciara

I'd be inclined to scrap the talking (sounds like you've already tried) and just dump him. Is he really worth the heartache in the long run? Depends how much you love him I suppose.