first time sex.

right im going to reading festival next week and plannin on losing my virginity. however, will it hurt 1st time?? (im male). what if she if is a virgin? what actually happens to make her blled or make it hurt?? also, dnt like the feeling of condoms. too dangerous to do it without??

Reply 1

freshestkid

1

Mate, dont lose your virginity in a sleeping bag.

Reply 2

freshestkid

1

Just noticed

Anonymous

what if she if is a virgin?

Do you even know who it is, or are you just planning on hooking a fellow mud-lover?

Reply 3

Straggler

13

..

(edited 12 years ago)

Reply 4

-Pete-

6

Anonymous

right im going to reading festival next week and plannin on losing my virginity. however, will it hurt 1st time?? (im male). what if she if is a virgin? what actually happens to make her blled or make it hurt?? also, dnt like the feeling of condoms. too dangerous to do it without??

If this is the first time you've ever been to a festival, let me inform you that you will not lose your virginity to someone who you've just met.

Festivals aren't about random hookup sex (and when it happens to someone you know, it tends to be ugly, sweaty and dirty as they haven't washed in about three days) even Glastonbury.

Also, by saying 'I don't like the feeling of condoms' and still being a virgin, asking if it'll hurt you, I get this crazy inkling you might not be ready for a sexual relationship. If this somehow happens anyway, wear a condom, lest these questions be appearing again on TSR in about 15yrs and 9 months.

Reply 5

vintagebadger

good lord man wear a johnny, it feels fine, makes you last longer and helps prevent the worst std of them all. . . children,

Reply 6

cutandpasteandtwisty

11

vintagebadger

good lord man wear a johnny, it feels fine, makes you last longer and helps prevent the worst std of them all. . . children,

Quality post, quality name.

Reply 7

Jonatan

13

Anonymous

right im going to reading festival next week and plannin on losing my virginity.

First bad idea.

Anonymous

however, will it hurt 1st time?? (im male).

Not normally, no.

Anonymous

what if she if is a virgin?

If you are both virgins there is a rather good chance you won't manage. Either because it might be too painful for her or because you will both be so nervous you literarely can't do it.

Anonymous

what actually happens to make her blled or make it hurt??

The hymen rupturing is what causes it to bleed, and normally hurts. Its also quite common that it hurts for a girl the first few times regardless of how careful you are. Generaly the more gentle and slow the better tho.

Anonymous

also, dnt like the feeling of condoms. too dangerous to do it without??

If you are both tested for HIV, in a long term monogamous relationship and are using another effective contraceptive then it shouldn't be too dangerous ( Tho it is still preferable if you use more than one contraceptive as it does happen that they fail). Otherwise, you'd be crazy not to use one.

Reply 8

MickeyG

Let me get this right. You are planning to lose your virginity in a field full of thousands of people, to a random girl, while razorlight play in the background and mud surrounds your sleeping bag. Class.

Reply 9

tctc

Anonymous

right im going to reading festival next week and plannin on losing my virginity. however, will it hurt 1st time?? (im male). what if she if is a virgin? what actually happens to make her blled or make it hurt?? also, dnt like the feeling of condoms. too dangerous to do it without??

its not next weekend

Reply 10

Profesh

20

Anonymous

right im going to reading festival next week and plannin on losing my virginity. however, will it hurt 1st time?? (im male). what if she if is a virgin? what actually happens to make her blled or make it hurt?? also, dnt like the feeling of condoms. too dangerous to do it without??

I hope you die of the syphilis that you will inevitably contract from the sort of girl who is liable to sleep with you in precisely those circumstances.

Reply 11

tctc

iment not next weekend when you lose your virginity

Reply 12

Aquillyne

1

tctc

its not next weekend

the funniest reply yet :P

oh i may as well make a reply too. YOU FOOL WEAR A CONDOM IF YOU REALLY MUST BE SUCH A DEPRAVED ANIMAL BUT OTHERWISE TRY GETTING A SOUL SOME PLACE. ahem. you can rep me positively now :biggrin:

Reply 13

noujazeg

2

Hmph.

Apart from anything else, if you're SO intent on losing it at the festival and you find out no girl is interested, you will probably get so desperate that you'll start telling lies to a girl of the "I never planned for this to happen but you are so special and beautiful that it just feels right" variety, which would be UNFORGIVABLE!

If you want to ruin the experience for yourself that's one thing, but don't you dare make a naive girl the victim of your hormone-fuelled ideals.

Reply 14

Sticky

karennerak

Hmph.

Apart from anything else, if you're SO intent on losing it at the festival and you find out no girl is interested, you will probably get so desperate that you'll start telling lies to a girl of the "I never planned for this to happen but you are so special and beautiful that it just feels right" variety, which would be UNFORGIVABLE!

Most of the time that's exactly how guys get a young girl into bed.

karennerak

If you want to ruin the experience for yourself that's one thing, but don't you dare make a naive girl the victim of your hormone-fuelled ideals.

Welcome to Britain.

Reply 15

ladyportacabin

8

I lost my virginity at Reading 99. It wasn't so great. The Red hot chilli peppers were playing.

Reply 16

noujazeg

2

Sticky

Most of the time that's exactly how guys get a young girl into bed.

Welcome to Britain.

So what if that's how it happens most of the time? That's not how it should happen.

"Welcome to Britain"? Welcome to the world, more like. That doesn't make it right.