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what's wrong with this guy

OK so I posted about this last week.

I was supposed to go out with this guy last Friday, but he called Friday morning to tell me he had to work late. I asked for more details but he didn't respond. I was mad.

Then he called the next day. He said he wanted to hang out with me that day or Sunday but I wasn't free. So we planned for this Friday. Last time we talked was Sunday.

I called him yesterday, no answer, no call or text back. Just calle him and i'm pretty sure he did that thing where you stop the call and send it straight to voicemail.

I sent him a text saying "umm are we still on for friday? if not let me know so i can make other plans." Still waiting for a response.

Why is this guy so stupid? He has been pursuing me this whole time, but when it actually comes close to the day we're supposed to go out he acts all weird! I'm starting to wonder if I'm crazy. I'm assuming that he's not really interested at this point. I just don't see why he would call me a lot and ask me out, then flake out at the last minute.

Reply 1

Has it entered you mind that he may have actually had to work last time?

How concrete were the plans you made for Friday - i.e. was a time and place set to meet?

You could be scaring him off by acting like a crazy person.

Reply 2

Yeah I believe he may have had to work last time.

But I haven't called him a lot. Just once yesterday, once today. Will that make me seem crazy?

Reply 3

*******s to him. if he was interested he would've been more proactive about it, no excuses. Delete his number and go about your day, life's too short to worry about crap like that.

Reply 4

Just got a txt from another guy who really wants to hang out with me this weekend! So this first guy is getting pushed to the side :tongue: He missed his chance with a cool chick

Reply 5

Good work anon, like jay z said: 'Girls you is pimps too, go and brush your shoulders off'. So get brushin :biggrin:

Reply 6

well done chick. t'other one lost his chance :p:

Reply 7

maybe he gets all nervous and stuff

Reply 8

Anonymous
OK so I posted about this last week.

I was supposed to go out with this guy last Friday, but he called Friday morning to tell me he had to work late. I asked for more details but he didn't respond. I was mad.

Then he called the next day. He said he wanted to hang out with me that day or Sunday but I wasn't free. So we planned for this Friday. Last time we talked was Sunday.

I called him yesterday, no answer, no call or text back. Just calle him and i'm pretty sure he did that thing where you stop the call and send it straight to voicemail.

I sent him a text saying "umm are we still on for friday? if not let me know so i can make other plans." Still waiting for a response.

Why is this guy so stupid? He has been pursuing me this whole time, but when it actually comes close to the day we're supposed to go out he acts all weird! I'm starting to wonder if I'm crazy. I'm assuming that he's not really interested at this point. I just don't see why he would call me a lot and ask me out, then flake out at the last minute.


I agree that you shouldn't be messed about by someone but don't ever say I want to know cos I can make other plans its basically interpreted as I have better things to do.

Reply 9

freshestkid
Good work anon, like jay z said: 'Girls you is pimps too, go and brush your shoulders off'. So get brushin :biggrin:


Bwa ha ha haha

:confused:

Sorry, but.

:confused:

Reply 10

Pretty Boy
lol. The other guy just gets binned?

Maybe his phone wasn't working or something?

I dunno, sounds like he had a lucky escape.


/signed

Reply 11

Maybe he likes the chase or is nervous.#
If he likes the chase then you have to make yourself unavaliable or for him to work to see you.

But yeah good luck with the other guy

Reply 12

freshestkid
Good work anon, like jay z said: 'Girls you is pimps too, go and brush your shoulders off'. So get brushin :biggrin:

it worries me that we're quoting jay-z for relationship advice. but true nonetheless!:biggrin: