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    (Original post by Tinykates)
    it's not pessimism - i am a known optimist, it is a flaw. trust me
    I know what you mean, but it's only a flaw based on what you do about said feelings.
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    (Original post by piginapoke)
    Ah but your 'gut feelings' wouldn't be controlled, just overriden. Can't you have an opinion about something that you 'feel' is wrong?
    Aren't over-ridden and controlled synonymous?

    I'm lost to be honest, debating isn't my forte.
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    (Original post by XTinaA)
    I know what you mean, but it's only a flaw based on what you do about said feelings.
    what can u do? how do u stop loving someone? it's impossible
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    (Original post by Cree)
    Really? How do you stop yourself from being in love with someone who doesn't love you? How do you stop feeing sad when someone you love has died?
    To the latter - obviously it hurts at first but after a time you just remember the good things about the deceased person and celebrate their life not mourn their death.

    To stop being in love with someone? Time heals most wounds!
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    (Original post by Tinykates)
    what can u do? how do u stop loving someone? it's impossible
    No it really isn't. Trust me.
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    (Original post by Tinykates)
    what can u do? how do u stop loving someone? it's impossible
    I know the feelin, it is impossible, and they might not like u. Whenever u talk to them, they may ignore u, or just reply "ok", very upsettin.
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    (Original post by Tinykates)
    what can u do? how do u stop loving someone? it's impossible
    there are extreme methods e.g. suicide
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    (Original post by Tinykates)
    you can't help the way you feel
    Why can't you feel this way towards this person?
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    (Original post by Tinykates)
    what can u do? how do u stop loving someone? it's impossible
    this is thread motivated by some personal experience i take it... its all psychological aint it- the mind is a tremendous thing!
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    (Original post by mc_watson87)
    I know the feelin, it is impossible, and they might not like u. Whenever u talk to them, they may ignore u, or just reply "ok", very upsettin.
    very subtle
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    (Original post by Dil)
    this is thread motivated by some personal experience i take it... its all psychological aint it- the mind is a tremendous thing!
    it must be yes, but i still don't think u can help the way u feel about people
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    (Original post by Tinykates)
    very subtle
    Umm, yes. :confused:
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    (Original post by theaman)
    Why can't you feel this way towards this person?
    because we are too young
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    I like to hide my true feelings in my Love Will Tear Us Apart 12" sleeve.
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    (Original post by Tinykates)
    it must be yes, but i still don't think u can help the way u feel about people
    You can if you want to. I know personally I can cut people out of my life if I put my mind to it. The head rules the heart eventually.
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    (Original post by Tinykates)
    because we are too young
    You're never too young.

    And I've stopped loving someone before so, it's possible! But she wasn't very nice in the end so it wasn't too difficult
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    I like to hide my true feelings in my Love Will Tear Us Apart 12" sleeve.
    LOL amazingtrade youre in a very emotionally musical mood today :cool:
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    (Original post by Tinykates)
    because we are too young
    So, you are younger than the person you like.

    Look at Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones.

    Unless he doesn't like you, age difference shouldn't really be a problem.

    Unless it really is an issue for you.......
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    (Original post by Tinykates)
    it must be yes, but i still don't think u can help the way u feel about people
    a bout of amnesia would sort that out methinks!; that's what always happens in the soaps!
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    I once fell in love with a girl on line and could never tell her my true feelings, I lost her as a result
 
 
 
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