do guys like to be asked out??

well do they?! :confused:

i know this might sound like a stupid question, but blokes, would you feel flattered if a girl asked you out or do you prefer to make the first move yourself? and if a girl did ask you out but you werent interested, how would you respond? I know that not all guys would be the same, but i was just wondering :smile:

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

yeah it wud be great if girls asked me out from time to time. My friends think the same, they wud be flatterred, like why is it guys have to make the 1st move??

Reply 2

Ron Stoppable

14

orbelina

well do they?! :confused:

i know this might sound like a stupid question, but blokes, would you feel flattered if a girl asked you out or do you prefer to make the first move yourself? and if a girl did ask you out but you werent interested, how would you respond? I know that not all guys would be the same, but i was just wondering :smile:

Yes - even if taken, it's a great feeling! Why - are you thinking of asking, orbelina? :rolleyes:

Reply 3

orbelina

OP

yes, and im gonna do it today! problem is the guy is quite shy, so i dont know how he will react

Reply 4

Misogynist

18

Yes.

Reply 5

Sithius

16

Course blokes would like that. Gay not too.

Reply 6

captain_yesterday

Yes, it is very flattering :biggrin:

Reply 7

Asriel

1

Being quite shy myself i would love it if the girl made the move, it would make it so much easier.

...Try sticking two shy people together

Reply 8

Misogynist

18

orbelina

yes, and im gonna do it today! problem is the guy is quite shy, so i dont know how he will react

Hmm.. If he's shy he's definitely not going to ask you out so that'd be your best bet actually..

Reply 9

Platinum Mech

12

Yeah, definitely. TBH, I'd feel nervous about asking somebody out if I wasn't entirely sure that they saw me in the same way, so I do appreciate it if they make the first move. :biggrin:

Reply 10

crazyexcitedrandomer01

1

Yeah they liked to be asked

Reply 11

Poison Ivy

I think they do. They'd be really chuffed if a girl approached them and asked them out but then you gotta to try not to boost there ego :wink:

Reply 12

CorpusNinja

15

for the millionth time: YES!

Reply 13

Poison Ivy

Biggie-n who is she?! :p:

Reply 14

serious narb

11

yeh it's a good ego boost

Reply 15

kennyboy

I'd love to be asked out, for most guys, the hardest part is the first move. Women can be very quick to dismiss guys, and women have basically got the pick of any guy they want (to women that disagree: try looking around, there are so many guys that women just arent interested in cause they cant make that first move, they're great people and brillant lovers most the time, but because they respect women so much, they dont push themselves) where as guys can be quite fearful of rejection more often than not, especially if the guy your interested in is shy! Ask him, and im sure the response will be favourable, but try not to ask in front of all his mates, he might get embarresed at the situation!

Reply 16

Livin_on_a_prayer

YES!!! Guys loved being asked out, why is it that we always have to make the first move??????

Reply 17

Navajo

14

Yeah definatly!

I hate asking girls out, if they asked me out it would be wicked :biggrin:

Reply 18

ruthiepoothie

11

I asked my bf out.

Got fed up of waiting for him!

We're still together 6 months later. Do it :smile:

Ruthie xx

Reply 19

Onearmedbandit

17

orbelina

well do they?! :confused:

i know this might sound like a stupid question, but blokes, would you feel flattered if a girl asked you out or do you prefer to make the first move yourself? and if a girl did ask you out but you werent interested, how would you respond? I know that not all guys would be the same, but i was just wondering :smile:

I bloody would (like it) :p:

Actually I was asked out around xmas last year but wasn't interested and because I'm not that great with girls myself it was quite awkward, especially as it was on a pub crawl and we were around each other for more or less 12 straight hours. I felt bad, both for her (obviously) and for me because I've been wanting a girlfriend badly for a few years now. However, I am glad I was asked out still. It's nice to be asked out by anybody really :smile:

Makes you feel... wanted.

do guys like to be asked out??

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