Angry Father Tells Woman On Train To Sit Down. Was He Right or Wrong

oh so you're saying we should let whores be who they are? you left wing feminists all say the same thing.

Firstly whats with all the slut shaming on this thread , have we not got the stage where its equally as acceptable for women to parade themselves about and be promiscuous as men ? You people are disappointing , just because she is wearing short shorts it doesn't make her a whore and doesn't justify using such sexist foul language against someone who did you no wrong , if she wants to walk in circles she can ****ing walk in circles . This is a free country , not some Islamic state .

If I was there I would probably tell the guy to go **** himself , if she was lapdancing on his kid thats another story but she wasn't doing anyone any harm . He probably isn't getting any so gets mad when its waved in his face.

They were short but its not like they're that uncommon , just go out on a Friday night . Get with the times . this isn't the 1600s . Women can wear whatever they want . just like men do.

I would pray for him, because obviously a man who would do such a thing has serious issues. If my husband were present, I would ask my husband to kindly speak to him to see what is the matter and if I should call the police.

Teaching your children to call people insulting names doesn't help the world be a better place. The man could have done much better by telling the woman in a kind way that her dress and her actions are bothering him. By being kind, he could have opened the door to understanding why she was dressing and behaving in such a manner. What trauma led her to behave in this way and dress this way?

There is always a reason for someone's dress and conduct.

Why exactly shouldn't we 'let whores be who they are'? Do you even have an argument?

The bitch was looking for attention and she got it. Probably wasn't the sort of attention she wanted but oh well.

This woman is a prostitute looking for punters....

It would now appear to me that you genuinely thought your comparison of dressing 'sluttily' on public transportation to turning up at a funeral in a Spiderman costume was valid.

You are invited to a funeral, a private event, by friends or relatives who are likely in considerable emotional distress due to the fact that one of their loved ones has just died. There is an implied (and widely agreed upon) dress code at a funeral, and if you do not follow it you are likely going to seriously hurt your (potentially somewhat irrational) friend or relative. If you don't follow the dress code then you can be asked to leave, since it is a private event, and you'd (rightly) be perceived as intending to hurt your friend or relative's feelings at the worst possible time.

On public transportation you wear whatever you are planning to wear when you arrive at your destination, as far as possible. People's perception of what is 'decent' varies wildly. What do you propose should be the agreed dress code on a train? Where do we all sign?

I know this video is a couple of years old but do you agree what he did or not?
Personally if i was with my daughter I would have had a word and asked her to sit down.
Probably wouldnt have called her a whore (unless she refused of course) but i would have said something.


www.youtube.com/watch?v=TxdsBd6dmcQ

It would now appear to me that you genuinely thought your comparison of dressing 'sluttily' on public transportation to turning up at a funeral in a Spiderman costume was valid.

You are invited to a funeral, a private event, by friends or relatives who are likely in considerable emotional distress due to the fact that one of their loved ones has just died. There is an implied (and widely agreed upon) dress code at a funeral, and if you do not follow it you are likely going to seriously hurt your (potentially somewhat irrational) friend or relative. If you don't follow the dress code then you can be asked to leave, since it is a private event, and you'd (rightly) be perceived as intending to hurt your friend or relative's feelings at the worst possible time.

On public transportation you wear whatever you are planning to wear when you arrive at your destination, as far as possible. People's perception of what is 'decent' varies wildly. What do you propose should be the agreed dress code on a train? Where do we all sign?

Woah! I've never seen that video before... But yeah she was being indecent and if I was there with a child I would try and distract the child, not shout at her and ESPECIALLY not call her a whore. Too far, I think.

Theres better ways of dealing with things. Plus, he's just teaching his children to swear and belittle people, and that verbally abusing women is ok. Pretty sure he wouldn't have shouted at a man if his bum crack was showing lol

Firstly whats with all the slut shaming on this thread , have we not got the stage where its equally as acceptable for women to parade themselves about and be promiscuous as men ? You people are disappointing , just because she is wearing short shorts it doesn't make her a whore and doesn't justify using such sexist foul language against someone who did you no wrong , if she wants to walk in circles she can ****ing walk in circles . This is a free country , not some Islamic state .

If I was there I would probably tell the guy to go **** himself , if she was lapdancing on his kid thats another story but she wasn't doing anyone any harm . He probably isn't getting any so gets mad when its waved in his face.

They were short but its not like they're that uncommon , just go out on a Friday night . Get with the times . this isn't the 1600s . Women can wear whatever they want . just like men do.

This isn't just a woman who is wearing a short skirt and getting unwanted attention in the street though is it, she's deliberately drawing attention to herself in an inappropriate environment. If I was on that train with my child I wouldn't have been happy at all. I'm pretty sure that if I got up and started waving my behind around like she is, I'd get torn apart within seconds.

Slut shaming isn't the issue here; you can't expose yourself inappropriately in front of children and justify it as being your right as a modern woman living in a free country, and you certainly can't just accuse people of slut shaming for telling you so.

Although I do agree with you that it was not right for the man to deal with the situation like that, calling her a whore is unacceptable.

(just noticed how long this thread already is, feel free to ignore this if you've already had this discussion with other posters earlier in the thread)

If I dress as a police officer should I complain if people treat me like one?

If I dress as a police officer should I complain if people treat me like one?

I was under the impression that treating a whore like a whore involved paying her for sex, not shouting at her on public transport.

Nice try though.