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MSN- too early?

okay i met this random guy on MSN, he said that i had added him and therefore he got my add.
the thing him was when we were chattin both of us were in a joly moly mood lol, anyway we carried on chattin and he told me he had just turned 18 last saturday, so hes 3 years older than me :p:

anyway he had to go and before he went offline he gave me this no saying if i felt really bored i could give him a call!! and went offline suddenly without even letting me type a letter!! anyway i texted him saying hay its me! how are you etc he replied and we sent 3 texts to eachother, i havnt texted him now as i dont wanna be over the top! also when we were online he asked if i wanted to go clubin with him and his mates but i said no as im not allowed lol :p:

can it be that he might be interested in me?? or is it too early?

Reply 1

high priestess fnord

9

dp you even know the 1st thing about him :confused:

Reply 2

aleathiel

16

one question, does he know how old you are?

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

Way too early. Give it some time and get to know eachother. Annnd ask for his name! x

Have you met him?

OP

well i know were he lives his no family membs, he just came from spain a few days as its the summer holz and his name

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

i knw his name lol :p:

and hes from the same country as me lol

Reply 7

username47781

20

oh i would not even think of going clubbing till you know exactly who he is, how do you know he is really 18 he could 40 really, these sorts of things usually end in something horrible.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

true i agree!! thats y i'm getting advice on this lol and thanks for your help so far but i might just need it for a lil while longer!! lol
well he showed me his pic and hes quite good looking, he asked for mine but i didnt give it lol :p:

also im not planning to yet

Reply 9

username47781

20

no i wouldnt give him a picture, his picture could easily be fake so you can't be sure

Reply 10

sarahb

we cant realy tel you what to and what not to do, but whatever you chose... be VERY careful! the internet isnt the safest of places! youve NO IDEA who is this guy really is! you know his name, where he lives, how old he is and that hes just been on holiday - but how do u know its true? i could add you and tell you that im a 23 year old guy called Roger, live in London and have just come bk from a holiday in Italy!!- and i doubt youd question it! but if u do ever chose to meet him - dont go alone, go with a group! :smile:

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

OP

i agree with all you guys!!!
i dont think im going to met this anyway and now with your help its so a NO NO!! lol
you guys a true!! i dont even know him and it all might be lies lies and a bunch of lies!!!
but thanks for all your help eveyone!!! :biggrin:

it was cool asking epople about this!!! thanks again eveyone!!

Reply 12

dh00001

16

well as long as he lives in the same country and showed you a pic its fine......

talk to him by all means but dont go anywhere with him. least of all clubbing, i doubt you would get in and then what would you do.

Reply 13

thePhantom

2

o dear - well at least u had the sense to come on a forum and seek advice ... NO

Reply 14

pink_lucie

14

erm......PLEASE dont let yourself be groomed by a 50yr old....

Reply 15

tbtommyb

11

That said, my friend met his current girlfriend on MSN. And neither of them are fat 50 year old men. Though be very careful. Try and find out if he has a Bebo or Myspace account, and look around that.

Reply 16

Juwel

18

The responsible advice is don't meet this person until you're not strangers anymore.

Reply 17

dh00001

16

burntgorilla

Try and find out if he has a Bebo or Myspace account, and look around that.

they can be faked as well. if someones determind enough that is.

Reply 18

foxiroxi

10

Just be careful.
I met my current boyfriend though the interent however spoke on MSN for 5 years and on the phone aswell for 3 of those years so it was along time....still wasn't my brightest idea and could have ended in tears

Reply 19

G4ry

1

Juwel

The responsible advice is don't meet this person until you're not strangers anymore.

How does that work? Until we meet someone they're a stranger; so the only way they can't be strangers is if they meet :confused:

(Not that i approve of meeting at all though as the age is far too young for clubbing and meeting new people from internet by suspicious introductions)

MSN- too early?

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