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What would you do if you found out that somone fancied you?

How would you react?
Would you approach your crushee?
Or would you just let it slide?
Discuss!

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I just tend to ignore it until they say something ,act normally

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I couldn't handle being told it - it was my best friend who told me and I honestly, did not know how to handle it.. I'd appreciate it if people did tell me now because I know how to handle it. It'd also be handy if I had a crush on that person because I'm too shy and a coward to say it :tongue:
Reply 3
Paaaaaaarty!
Reply 4
Well if I want a relationship I'll chat to them. If I don't I'll just sorta make them go off me without directly saying no to them.
Ignore them,and if they ask me out I just say 'Sorry I already have bf'.
I'd decide whether I fancied them back, and tell them.
If I liked them I'd tell them.
If I didn't I'd get to know them to see if I thought something would work between them anyway. You don't need a crush to be in a relationship.
If I feel some sort of attraction to them, see where it goes. If not, then I'd tell them I would only want a future with them as friends, and hope it can be that way. No awkwardness, no difficulty, nothing complicated.

I could never understand any other way of moving forward - I straight up believe anything else is essentially incorrect/silly.
Reply 9
I would only acknowledge it if they were my type :/
If they are not my type, I just try to pretend I don't know. Sorry, I know how mean that sounds
I'd be flattered no matter who it was, if I like them back I'd tell them, flirt or whatever
If not and they tell me I have my go to excuse which is 'I have a boyfriend sorry' although that one might catch up with me soon :erm:
If they don't bring it up I will pretend that I nothing :redface:
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I tend not to presume unless they make a move and then I freak out because I don't know what to say. It usually involves running away in some capacity.
I would approach them and give them hope by saying that I relate to their feelings, I fancy myself too. :smile:
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Carry on with life as normal?
Not really pay mind. If I a tane/guy comes up to me speaking for his friend, I hate them both. Then I'd get over it 2 mins later after I make the guy feel awkawrd ignoring him. I normally find out from the person but it would be a creepy or crude thing he says. So I brush them off. If someone politely maturely comes up to me I honestly am not flattered very easily so I won't say, O, maybe I'll give it a shot. No. I never give any shots to strangers. We have to have friended in like group work or something, not off the queue at the shop or during a jog. No. I don't date from my school. Too close for comfort.
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If I found out someone I didn't like back fancied me, I would take it as a compliment and that would be it and if it ever came up, I would tell them gently I wasn't interested.

If someone I did fancy also fancied me back, I probably still wouldn't have the balls to tell them how I felt unless they told me first, unless I was drunk lol.
If they are my "crushee", then probably break into a little happy dance and kneel down and thank god for the miracle but if not just pretend I don't know and act normally. But sometimes, sadly, I even act a little more distant and cold to them
ive been in this situation so many times, i have developed a conditioned reaction to it. pm me for more info
Reply 18
Original post by caseyfattey69
ive been in this situation so many times, i have developed a conditioned reaction to it. pm me for more info


Aha Casey! You crack me up pal!! :rofl:

Please why not share and enlighten everyone on this thread of how it's done?

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