Should i pay to lose my virginityWatch
Its a question I've been asking myself. I dont think im particularly bad looking however girls dont seem to be interested in me. I'm generally known as the nice guy who doesnt really have a problem with anyone. I'm nearly 19 so getting quite old to be a virgin I think and this means that the first time will becoming increasingly awkward as i get older.
So now I'm debating whether getting the first time out of the way with an escort will be good for me and give me more confidence or will it have the opposite effect. I know this needs to be answered by myself but I'm interested to see what others think.
The above leads me onto the next part of my answer. I think you've got to sit back and think about the reasons underpinning why you want sex. Yes, you might want to get it over and done with- loose your virginity, feel as if you've passed a milestone then move on with your life more confident to form relationships with women. I'm not here to judge you, if those are your rationalisations then I'd say go with it and good on you. Personally I don't think there's any shame in paying for sex. Many more people do it than anyone would care to admit.
However, most people I've seen in a situation similar to yours desire intimacy, romance and love more than they do sex. I can assure you that this is the last thing you'll experience with an escort. She is there to perform a paid service. She will, extremely well perhaps, but it will be an experience devoid of affection and love. If this is a case, my advice to you would be to build up your self esteem and confidence, get out there and meet people with similar interests. Soon enough you'll find someone who you like (and who likes you) and the rest will be history as they say!