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Reply 1
kiss them above the water.
Reply 2
Anonymous
How can a person make their kisses less wet and just generally nicer? I've only kissed a couple of people and it's not been good.

Don't try to consume their face while kissing, rather opt for the more 'closed mouth' approach. I'm not talking cat's arse closed, but have a small gap between your lips... ask them how they like to be kissed, there's a novel idea!
Why are your kisses wet? :confused:
Yeah, don't open your mouth as much?
Reply 5
It's really difficult to give advice on things like this because - like most people, I imagine - I don't quite know what I do, though it gets good reports. Remembering mentally and consciously what you're doing is different to your body remembering how to do something, so it's hard to give an account of how to kiss! It's more intuitive. Incidentally, maybe I don't have a problem with a wet mouth because I've been playing clarinet and saxophone for most of my life; that would be interesting to 'research' (haha) whether wind/brass players are better kissers...please, just no-one mention "band camp".

Anyway. Vary the pressures on their lips; try not opening your mouth too much, as people have said; if you want, use your tongue lightly at first and listen to their breathing and signals - if they feel awkward about this:
Bubblebee
ask them how they like to be kissed, there's a novel idea!
then these are usually a reliable guide.

The best advice I can give is to be confident, responsive to your partner and remember that practice makes perfect :wink:
Reply 6
This is a problem for me when kissing when lying down with one person "on top". All the saliva from the person on top, throught gravity, flows into the person belows mouth, lol.

Try and swallow as much as you can before you kiss.

Kiss for shorter periods of time.

Try not to lick your lips much before the kiss, and if you do, make it only slight/wipe your mouth, lol.

Like others say don't try and consume their face, lol. But sometimes a really pationate kiss can be like this so just get used to it.

Don't chew gum while/before you do it...
Reply 7
Pandamonk
Don't chew gum while/before you do it...


Eeeugh. Does the ellipsis indicate some kind of bad personal experience? You poor girl.
Reply 8
Don't dribble, don't drool, and don't stick your tongue in their mouth.
Pandamonk
This is a problem for me when kissing when lying down with one person "on top". All the saliva from the person on top, throught gravity, flows into the person belows mouth, lol.

hahaha never had that prob with my ex though. Funny.
Reply 10
sssh
Eeeugh. Does the ellipsis indicate some kind of bad personal experience? You poor girl.


I've chewed during many many times... I just tuck it away and its perfectly safe!

And of course I don't go for manic chewing straight before / after... that'd be a bit offputting!
Girl: "I really love kissing you, but do you mind not passing me your chewing gum."

Boy: "It's not chewing gum, I've got bronchitis"
halfoflessthan50p
Girl: "I really love kissing you, but do you mind not passing me your chewing gum."

Boy: "It's not chewing gum, I've got bronchitis"


EW

EWEWEWEWWEWW

:frown:
Reply 13
sssh
Eeeugh. Does the ellipsis indicate some kind of bad personal experience? You poor girl.

Girl? Nah just that you produce more saliva when chewing gum, and it aint too nice no. Especially when unexpectantly find yourself with used chewing gum, lol.
Reply 14
bunthulhu
Don't dribble, don't drool, and don't stick your tongue in their mouth.

What??? that's the fun part!!
Reply 15
emzilee
I've chewed during many many times... I just tuck it away and its perfectly safe!

And of course I don't go for manic chewing straight before / after... that'd be a bit offputting!

Me too. My gf and i have a laugh with it. Sometimes it works its way out of the hiding place though, lol.
Pandamonk
Me too. My gf and i have a laugh with it. Sometimes it works its way out of the hiding place though, lol.


Where do you hide it? Or is this just getting too kinky?
Pandamonk
What??? that's the fun part!!


Not if you just ram it in some random muppet's mouth :p:
Practice with your pillow.
Reply 19
bunthulhu
Not if you just ram it in some random muppet's mouth :p:

lol. There should be no ramming of tongues, but soft gentle playing. :p: