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So my partner and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We went through a rough patch where problems outside of the relationship had an impact on our personal lives, and led to us arguing and albeit wrongly, blaming each other.
My partner recently told me they kissed a couple of people when they were drunk, but their honesty and attitude meant I found it easy to forgive them.
My only problem is I don't know if it's going to happen again, as I want to believe it won't, but after pushing them away before I'm scared I may unintentionally do it again due to my own messed up circumstances.
On top of this one of the people they kissed is lurking around and stalking us both online. I'm not sure what to do.
All I know is I'm in love.
My partner recently told me they kissed a couple of people when they were drunk, but their honesty and attitude meant I found it easy to forgive them.
My only problem is I don't know if it's going to happen again, as I want to believe it won't, but after pushing them away before I'm scared I may unintentionally do it again due to my own messed up circumstances.
On top of this one of the people they kissed is lurking around and stalking us both online. I'm not sure what to do.
All I know is I'm in love.
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Only you know if you can carry on with the relationship. Was this incident a one-off and a consequence of circumstances at the time or do you feel that they're not to trust anymore? Ultimately it comes down to how you feel about it and whatever you decide, your feelings are completely reasonable and acceptable considering what has happened.
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This ultimately comes down to you. You say you've forgiven him but have you really?
Trust is a hard thing to gain, even harder after they've lost it once.
Trust is a hard thing to gain, even harder after they've lost it once.
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