vibrator virgin problems...

erm...why the biggest one when you are a virgin? i don't really know very much, but i do know what 'sloppy seconds' means...perhaps you should have chosen a .... less ...ample load to 'bear' ?

And the vagina doesn't stay loose numb nuts.

actually, its not the biggest one! there was no smaller one it the shop that was shaped like a penis, the smaller ones all had diamonds and stuff stuck on them which made me feel a bit doubtful...

erm...i dont understand the sloppy seconds thing? whats that? it sounds kinda gross

"Rampant rabbit deluxe"? ****ing hell.

Anyway, yeah, it sounds normal. Your vagina takes time to get used to things being inserted into it. Put it this way - if you can't get a vibrator inside it, you can't get a baby out of it. It will loosen up with time though. Don't force it or it will hurt, but gradually over a couple of weeks use it as far as you can and it should help you loosen up a bit.

The fact that you've done a lot of horse riding doesn't necessarily mean your hymen hasn't broken, by the way. And if it has it may only have broken partly.

If you must know, google it. First link that comes up will do nicely.

My word, that was very rude and totally unnecessary. You should not give 'advice' to people when your sole experience of such situations comes from secondary and often inconsistent online sources. Unless you have some kind of relevent medical training or direct personal experience, please refrain from posting speculative and unrealistic responses to this girl's intimate problems.
You fool.

Actually, no-one on here is qualified, as it says clearly at the top of each forum. generalebriety is as justified in giving his views as you are. mebbe he's just doing his best to be helpful to someone who's posted a problem on here, as we all try and be helpful with whatever knowledge we have.

I would agree that there is no need for anyone to get aggressive though.

I would agree that there is no need for anyone to get aggressive though.

Absolutely, I was suggesting that no male members should really give advice, unless they are medically trained.
My gripe is with people who regurgitate material that they have read elsewhere, which is often incorrect.
Since no blokes have a vagina, and no gay men will have a great deal of first-hand experience with them, generalebriety was not, and is not in a position to advise the OP.

Well, thank you for your opinion. Frankly, though, I'm sick of people patronising me for being helpful. So I hereby disregard what you just said. If the OP doesn't want my opinion they can damn well say in the first post "P.S. no gay guys " and I'll happily know my place and not bother to help.

Don't know why I'm here if I'm not allowed to post because I don't have a vagina. Go and tell all the male gynaecologists they're not allowed to give advice and they should "leave it to the girls " and they'll tell you exactly the same as I did.

Lol, dude I'm bi! Don't stress cos ppl don't agree with u!

Absolutely, I was suggesting that no male members should really give advice, unless they are medically trained.
My gripe is with people who regurgitate material that they have read elsewhere, which is often incorrect.
Since no blokes have a vagina, and no gay men will have a great deal of first-hand experience with them, generalebriety was not, and is not in a position to advise the OP.

for the (large number)th time, the OP doesn't know about her own problem either, so I wouldn't really say that girls replying was at all any proof of a right answer.

Good on you for not telling me I'm wrong anonymously though.