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    So I was on a night out with mates, I met this girl we got talking for about hour. And then she complained about being cold, so I lent her my jacket. However before leaving I got her mates number, so I texted her asking for her friends number. I then asked if she'd like to go for a drink once I got her number, she responded by saying yes, why not and that she would let me know when she's free cause she works a lot. A week since this text and I have had no response, is she given me the cold shoulder and just said yes as she didn't want to seem harsh. Or will she let me know when she's free? Or should. Text her again ?
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    Or take it as a sign? If she was interested she'd probably have texted.
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    It sounds like she really does want to go for a drink with you- why else would she say yes via text when she could have easily made up an excuse? However, I don't think you should text again- she'll either text you when she's free, in which case great, or if she doesn't text then unfortunately she may have changed her mind, but in that case then you don't really want to be texting her again! hope it works out for you x
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    I don't see anything wrong with sending her a message again about going out for drinks. If you're interested in her then why not? She may have forgotten to message you. I'd say text her and see what happens. If she doesn't reply then you know she isn't interested. Thought if she was chatting to you for an hour I think she must of been somewhat interested.

    Good luck anyway
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    (Original post by Johnny tima)
    So I was on a night out with mates, I met this girl we got talking for about hour. And then she complained about being cold, so I lent her my jacket. However before leaving I got her mates number, so I texted her asking for her friends number. I then asked if she'd like to go for a drink once I got her number, she responded by saying yes, why not and that she would let me know when she's free cause she works a lot. A week since this text and I have had no response, is she given me the cold shoulder and just said yes as she didn't want to seem harsh. Or will she let me know when she's free? Or should. Text her again ?
    Text her mate.. it's a long way away yet, and you've plenty of time before you have to deal with it, but it's well worth considering the undeniable fact that it'll be winter soon and you'll need your jacket back.
 
 
 
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