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    One of my guy friends asked me out on a date 2 months ago but at that time I didn't have any romantic feelings for him. Now, I think I might have but I don't really know how to go about it - I don't know if he still likes me in that way. We were supposed to go to this restaurant (before I knew it was a date) and I recently went with a friend so I just texted him saying it was really good and he replied saying yeah he had heard that (there was more to the texts but that's just the jist of it lol). I think the text I sent him had the implication of wanting to go there with him but (I think) he knows I'm quite an oblivious person so he doesn't know if that's what I mean or not. Sorry if that doesn't really make any sense but I just don't really know how to approach this haha as I've never asked a guy (I had feelings for) out - does anyone have any ideas? Thanks!
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    I didn't quite follow that...

    If you like him, ask him out. I don't see what's the issue.
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    (Original post by Kagutsuchi)
    I didn't quite follow that...

    If you like him, ask him out. I don't see what's the issue.
    What this guy said. I don't see why girls put so much effort into their hints at guys etc. when it is FAR easier to just ask him out. He liked you before and you're still talking. Chances are he still likes you unless he's seeing someone else.
    You rejected him before so he's hardly going to just assume you like him and take another risk at asking you out. That would look needy and annoying if infact, you didn't have feelings from him.
    you girls play too many mind games with yourselves.
 
 
 
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