i kinda need advice now!!!

okay me n bf were chattin now, hes still online, now his tution teacher has just come and he said he needed to go, when i okay then bye love ya, he didnt reply with anything and is still online, im kinda scared that someone might have read the massage, but now when i looked he seemed to be offline, it doesnt take that long to even type a bye, if not love ya at the end does it? im also pissed because i had no sleep last night and he woke me up by a text saying come online, i found this sweet as i woke up with his text but i had to get ready and breakfast in 10 minutes!! and risk it from my parents as they dont agree on me having a bf, we chatted for like 20 min and then his tution teacher came, should i mail him saything something or not?
and do u think thats unfair on me, i mean i dont want to say anything to him as we might get into a fight and we love each other very much but also when we chat he has to stop because his favorite soap come on!! and we havnt seen eachother in months as hes abroad at the moment!! what should i do?

Reply 1

cat_meiow

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This is the world of msn, it can act and do weird things without anyone knowing, so don't read to much into it really.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

I'm 100% sure that you shouldn't say anything. If you ever do then you should do it when you are calm and not pissed off in the slightest. My ex was like this and if i ever hinted at the "problem" then she would go OTT. There is no point damaging a relationship over something like that imo. You gonna have to learn to adapt to their ways and one day you should hint it but when you are 100% calm!

Reply 3

Profesh

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Anonymous

okay me n bf were chattin now, hes still online, now his tution teacher has just come and he said he needed to go, when i okay then bye love ya, he didnt reply with anything and is still online, im kinda scared that someone might have read the massage, but now when i looked he seemed to be offline, it doesnt take that long to even type a bye, if not love ya at the end does it? im also pissed because i had no sleep last night and he woke me up by a text saying come online, i found this sweet as i woke up with his text but i had to get ready and breakfast in 10 minutes!! and risk it from my parents as they dont agree on me having a bf, we chatted for like 20 min and then his tution teacher came, should i mail him saything something or not?
and do u think thats unfair on me, i mean i dont want to say anything to him as we might get into a fight and we love each other very much but also when we chat he has to stop because his favorite soap come on!! and we havnt seen eachother in months as hes abroad at the moment!! what should i do?

Absolutely nothing.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

i am calm, i mean i when i woke up i wrote a whole mail saying im sorry but i'll be late coming online as he has tution, he worte back saying im sorry too because he woke me up! i was cool with it but its not like the first time hes done it!!! i mean we have in a relationship for almost 8 months and havnt had one singal fight because i always keep a cool head, i dono why im freeking out at this situation though!!

Reply 5

amie

14

I'm sorry, what's the problem here? :confused:

Reply 6

supernova2

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so he went offline without saying bye and youre freaking out.

riiiight....

Reply 7

lilac!!

15

to tell you the truth hun, your problem doesnt really make sence

Reply 8

HereFishyFishy

13

Jeez - perhaps his money ran out if he's abroad? Perhaps MSN ****ed up? Perhaps his other girlfriend walked in?
No problem - waste of forum space.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

okay maybe i was freeking out for no reason, and no he does NOT have another girlfriend!! but still this was the first time he ent without actually saying anything and me the ideot kept the convo going!!!

Reply 10

cat_meiow

1

I'm soo glad my boyfriend does not use msn or even the internet because that would just be another way of me finding something to moan at him about.

Reply 11

cinder

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Anonymous

okay maybe i was freeking out for no reason, and no he does NOT have another girlfriend!! but still this was the first time he ent without actually saying anything and me the ideot kept the convo going!!!

You do realise how stupid you're being don't you?
You don't have a problem
You don't need advice

Reply 12

amie

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Anonymous

okay maybe i was freeking out for no reason, and no he does NOT have another girlfriend!! but still this was the first time he ent without actually saying anything and me the ideot kept the convo going!!!

Maybe he was busy? My boyfriend does it all the time. It's not really an issue, you're definitely freaking out for no reason at all.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

OP

i know what u guys are saying but its not like he went offline stright away, he staryed for likr half and hour! so i was like okay, he could have even said chat 2 u later or something, i mean anything!!

Reply 14

amie

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Anonymous

i know what u guys are saying but its not like he went offline stright away, he staryed for likr half and hour! so i was like okay, he could have even said chat 2 u later or something, i mean anything!!

Perhaps he left it running by mistake? Or perhaps he just couldn't be arsed to type 'bye'.

Seriously, this is not an issue. Who cares that he didn't say goodbye? I very much hope your relationship is not entirely reliant on silly little pleasantries like saying goodbye at the end of an MSN conversation.

Reply 15

BlackHawk

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What should you do? Try chilling out.

Who cares if he didn't say goodbye? He was good enough to chat to you when he should have been doing work, so rather than overanalysing every little detail you don't like, focus on the point that he came online to chat to you in the first place, because he wanted to chat to you.

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

OP

okay i get eveyone, i did kinda freek out for no reason mainly because that was the first ever time!! no he didnt hve work because he had a day off 2day, never mind thou, thanks for your help!! n ill chill out and mail him saying sorry!! lol

Reply 17

cat_meiow

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Anonymous

okay i get eveyone, i did kinda freek out for no reason mainly because that was the first ever time!! no he didnt hve work because he had a day off 2day, never mind thou, thanks for your help!! n ill chill out and mail him saying sorry!! lol