My girlfriend had been living with me for several months as she was studying in my city, but since there's nothing left apart from handing in her dissertation, she decided to return home. I haven't really seen her much in the last month and can't really visit her place since I'm working during the week days.
One morning, she texts me letting me know that she's meeting up with a friend of hers in my city. At this point, I'm thinking maybe we can hang out during the weekend or something if she planned on staying an extra day. But I'm probably hoping for too much since I find out later...
"Heading back after dinner"
I don't really get it. Maybe it's because I'm looking at it from the perspective of what I'd do, but if the journey already cost me £20-25 to come over... I guess she was probably working on saturday or something. Just feel disappointed with it all really.
Don't really get my girlfriend Watch
- Thread Starter
- 02-07-2014 01:06
- 02-07-2014 01:20
There is something wrong! seems like you may have upset her in some way ask her if everything is ok! sounds strange, you haven't seen each other in a month! and she comes to see a friend and not even a pop in to see you! sounds fishy! she should not have even told you she was coming down. maybe she wanted you to ask instead of her asking?? but again really strange!
- 02-07-2014 08:00
Ask her why she did not want to see you while she was in the vicinity
- 02-07-2014 10:04
That does sound quite worrying, have you considered asking her?
Something is definitely off, but only through talking it out - that you will both reach a conclusion.
- 02-07-2014 10:16
She wants you to talk to her. That's why she's told you she's in London whilst letting you know simultaneously that she isn't seeing you whilst here.
Unfortunately with a lot of girls, you have to play the game, and let her feel like she's in control haha.
- 02-07-2014 11:06
Yeah like others have said, it seems like something's bothering her, but she may be being passive aggressive and instead of just confronting you saying "hey you did/said x one day, it upset me", she's not talking about it and wants you to guess and be a mind reader.
- Community Assistant
- 02-07-2014 11:13
Long distance rarely works. Unless you have plans to join each other again then id write her off as a poor investment.