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    Met a while ago at a political meet, when he said he liked me a lot, I was amazing etc. Later on we became FB friends and he always used to send loads of Xs and also say he liked me and if I liked him.
    Then he invited me to go for a picnic in the city last week, we agreed a day and etc. Talked intermittently the week before, him asking if I liked him again.
    Then the day before we were meant to meet I asked if it was still happening or? pretty casually and he never replied (saw it the next day).

    Very curious on opinions on why this guy may have acted like he did. :confused: It confuses me muchly.

    P.S. before anyone suggests so this guy is actually very sweet and not at all player like so that would not be a reason..
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    Met a while ago at a political meet, when he said he liked me a lot, I was amazing etc. Later on we became FB friends and he always used to send loads of Xs and also say he liked me and if I liked him.
    Then he invited me to go for a picnic in the city last week, we agreed a day and etc. Talked intermittently the week before, him asking if I liked him again.
    Then the day before we were meant to meet I asked if it was still happening or? pretty casually and he never replied (saw it the next day).

    Very curious on opinions on why this guy may have acted like he did. :confused: It confuses me muchly.

    P.S. before anyone suggests so this guy is actually very sweet and not at all player like so that would not be a reason..
    A guy did that to me back in April, makes you feel like **** but I just said to myself 'I've lived 18 years without him, I think I'll manage just fine'.

    I don't know why he did it, he was so sweet and I actually thought he was different but apparently not. He asked me out for drinks and postponed it and I asked him if he still wanted to meet up, he never replied and I left him because I'm not going to chase someone who doesn't want me.

    My advice is, just leave it, hurts like hell but you'll learn to get over it.
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    Cold feet? sometimes it seems like a good idea and you're well up for it, then when the times comes you kinda well bottle it...
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    See weird thing is withing an hour of posting this, he messaged saying sorry he hadn't seen it. I said no worries, to which he replied that he'd like to see me this week - and yet again he hasn't messaged this week o.o
    It just weirds me out as he is the one who keeps suggesting it, I'm literally not being pushy in the slightest....
    Never met someone who acted like this
 
 
 
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