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    Askm / hey TSRians. ..
    I dont want to backbite but theres a female in my class who is over smart and a teacher s pet...who thinks shes the queen and right now when Im in the deep**** workload she's acting mean and all my anger is aimed at her!

    May Allah swt not reward me her bad deeds, in shaa Allah. Ive been reciting ayat ul kursi but looks like my anger is in the highest level approachable ): and isn't subsiding. .

    JA

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    (Original post by M Jamali)
    Askm / hey TSRians. ..
    I dont want to backbite but theres a female in my class who is over smart and a teacher s pet...who thinks shes the queen and right now when Im in the deep**** workload she's acting mean and all my anger is aimed at her!

    May Allah swt not reward me her bad deeds, in shaa Allah. Ive been reciting ayat ul kursi but looks like my anger is in the highest level approachable ): and isn't subsiding. .

    JA

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    lol cool story.
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    Unless you're feeling particularly violent, I fail to see what the problem is. Just ignore her.
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    Ameen!

    Lols

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    (Original post by M Jamali)
    Askm / hey TSRians. ..
    I dont want to backbite but theres a female in my class who is over smart and a teacher s pet...who thinks shes the queen and right now when Im in the deep**** workload she's acting mean and all my anger is aimed at her!

    May Allah swt not reward me her bad deeds, in shaa Allah. Ive been reciting ayat ul kursi but looks like my anger is in the highest level approachable ): and isn't subsiding. .

    JA

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    Lol okays.. Just ignore her! And try not to pay much attention to her during class the more you pay attention to her rather than what you're supposed to doing is just going to annoy you more. Maybe you should just concentrate on your own work
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    (Original post by AnharM)
    lol cool story.
    Thank u

    (Original post by Vian)
    Unless you're feeling particularly violent, I fail to see what the problem is. Just ignore her.
    Ignored her almost everytime... she's someone with two faces? ..acts super cute in the front and go *****ing behind the back... ugh Im doin the same right now atleast the *****ing part...

    (Original post by TheKingOfTSR)
    Ameen!

    Lols

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    I dont like this feeling. .. ty for Ameen, summa Ameen

    (Original post by IqraHaq)
    Lol okays.. Just ignore her! And try not to pay much attention to her during class the more you pay attention to her rather than what you're supposed to doing is just going to annoy you more. Maybe you should just concentrate on your own work
    Ignore, like I mentioned in here above... she comes to me, even when I dobt give her a damn! . Man I know not how to deal with her. .. im supra crazy to actually ruin her life for trying to ruin mine... im soo wrong here... may Allah forgive me for suvh wrong intentions )':

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    Ignore her, one day it'll bite her in the ass

    Focus on improving yourself and being above her rather than trying to put her down
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    (Original post by TheBBQ)
    Ignore her, one day it'll bite her in the ass

    Focus on improving yourself and being above her rather than trying to put her down
    :rofl:
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    (Original post by IqraHaq)
    :rofl:
    You literally laugh at anything...LOL
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    (Original post by M Jamali)
    Thank u


    Ignored her almost everytime... she's someone with two faces? ..acts super cute in the front and go *****ing behind the back... ugh Im doin the same right now atleast the *****ing part...


    I dont like this feeling. .. ty for Ameen, summa Ameen



    Ignore, like I mentioned in here above... she comes to me, even when I dobt give her a damn! . Man I know not how to deal with her. .. im supra crazy to actually ruin her life for trying to ruin mine... im soo wrong here... may Allah forgive me for suvh wrong intentions )':

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    How old are you lol?
    This cheered me up no offence, I remember being like this lmao
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    Get angry with her, tell her off.

    Whatever society tells you, anger isn't an emotion that needs to be suppressed and you'll feel better for it. Within reason. Don't punch her.
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    (Original post by AnharM)
    You literally laugh at anything...LOL
    I don't laugh at antthing. I laugh at stuff I find funny (which admittedly is a lot of things :lol:)

    But if you'd rather I sit :sad: all day thennnnnnnnnn... Here I go :sad::sad::sad:
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    (Original post by IqraHaq)
    I don't laugh at antthing. I laugh at stuff I find funny (which admittedly is a lot of things :lol:)

    But if you'd rather I sit :sad: all day thennnnnnnnnn... Here I go :sad::sad::sad:
    Looool you can laugh at whatever you like bae
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    (Original post by AnharM)
    Looool you can laugh at whatever you like bae
    Pahahahaa :woo:

    Thank ya

    :lol:

    K I'm done... Derailing this thread tho... Whoops...
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    (Original post by TheBBQ)
    Ignore her, one day it'll bite her in the ass

    Focus on improving yourself and being above her rather than trying to put her down
    Ignoring wont help! She's just wierd! Ive always ignored her but she being the teachers pet messes it up! Indeed I hekped her get the project shes currently working! Duh and theres no ty at the least...

    (Original post by katbob)
    How old are you lol?
    This cheered me up no offence, I remember being like this lmao
    How old are you? ..arent you not supposed to ask a female her age ..:-P
    I haven't checked out your profile to sau if you're a male or female, if youre one female, you'll know what I mean.. haha

    (Original post by tooosh)
    Get angry with her, tell her off.

    Whatever society tells you, anger isn't an emotion that needs to be suppressed and you'll feel better for it. Within reason. Don't punch her.
    But wouldn't that degrade me to her level? And Islam doesn't teaches us that.


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    The only best strategy is to ignore , and just keep your eyes open.
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    Just ignore her. If she annoys you, close your eyes and count to ten. That was my strategy whenever one of my classmates kept annoying me.
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    (Original post by M Jamali)
    But wouldn't that degrade me to her level? And Islam doesn't teaches us that.


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    No it doesn't. You need to make your own decisions that appropriately fit your human condition. If that means deviating from your religion, well getting angry isn't haram.

    Surely it makes more sense to fight her on the same level than a different one?

    Maybe you can ask her how old she is or how much she weighs. Though it's better to confront her about the actual issue and not something else. You want resolution, not hate.
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    (Original post by M Jamali)
    Ignoring wont help! She's just wierd! Ive always ignored her but she being the teachers pet messes it up! Indeed I hekped her get the project shes currently working! Duh and theres no ty at the least...


    How old are you? ..arent you not supposed to ask a female her age ..:-P
    I haven't checked out your profile to sau if you're a male or female, if youre one female, you'll know what I mean.. haha


    But wouldn't that degrade me to her level? And Islam doesn't teaches us that.


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    Haha that doesn't count if you're a kid
    Plus you're a girl not a woman

    I'm 18 btw
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    (Original post by Jmaesparker)
    The only best strategy is to ignore , and just keep your eyes open.
    Ty sparker,
    I surely am gonna ignore her! Coz im gonna go study harder, in shaa Allah, i'd just get myself busy to actually waste my time thinking of her. (:

    (Original post by TaciturnPhantom)
    Just ignore her. If she annoys you, close your eyes and count to ten. That was my strategy whenever one of my classmates kept annoying me.
    Hey phantom, I'll try this . Ty (:

    (Original post by tooosh)
    No it doesn't. You need to make your own decisions that appropriately fit your human condition. If that means deviating from your religion, well getting angry isn't haram.

    Surely it makes more sense to fight her on the same level than a different one?

    Maybe you can ask her how old she is or how much she weighs. Though it's better to confront her about the actual issue and not something else. You want resolution, not hate.
    Where did the age and weight thing came up here. .. ? *baffled*

    (Original post by katbob)
    Haha that doesn't count if you're a kid
    Plus you're a girl not a woman

    I'm 18 btw
    Ouch! That hurt, *sob-sob*... I ain't a kid, actually I'm quite a few years elder to you... ^^,





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