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    Hello,

    So I am a 25 year old female. I have had several sexual partners. My problem is that I am very hesistant to let any guy I have been with go down there to pleasure me.. with their hand or mouth.

    I enjoy it the feeling of it when they do but I don't know why I always end up making excuses to not receive anything. It makes me feel nervous. I feel absolutely ridiculous to be honest. I have no problem with actual sex or pleasuring a guy, I do this quite alot actually.

    I really want to get over whatever problem I have, I don't know what causes it. I think partially it is because I feel self concious about making noise and not being in control but how do I get over it? Surely this isn't the only reason. Has any other females been in this position?
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    I can understand this. I don't have the fingers problem but mouths make me nervous :P I found it got better as I watched female friendly porn (the really mushy nice stuff with lots of pleasuring and loving). Sometimes if you work through it and distract yourself by kissing/holding hands or something, it gets easier. I think it's also much easier with someone you've known for a while.
 
 
 
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