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    well i was dating this girl back in december for a few months and it was getting really intense and then i had to move out to a different country, we knew its gonna happen since we started dating but it was somewhat a topic we avoided completely and decided to enjoy the time we had and then I moved out, we broke up, fought a lot, didn't talk for months and now we talk occasionally but its all really emotionless and cold, i'm over her and all that, i hooked up with other girls since then but I still find myself getting dreams with her in them and having nostalgia about those days, wanting to go back, im going to uni in september as well which i'm looking forward to yet i still can't completely cut off that string in my life, i planned a whole trip to go back there just to see her, any advice?
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    well i was dating this girl back in december for a few months and it was getting really intense and then i had to move out to a different country, we knew its gonna happen since we started dating but it was somewhat a topic we avoided completely and decided to enjoy the time we had and then I moved out, we broke up, fought a lot, didn't talk for months and now we talk occasionally but its all really emotionless and cold, i'm over her and all that, i hooked up with other girls since then but I still find myself getting dreams with her in them and having nostalgia about those days, wanting to go back, im going to uni in september as well which i'm looking forward to yet i still can't completely cut off that string in my life, i planned a whole trip to go back there just to see her, any advice?
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    Do you think seeing her will get you closure? Will she even be willing to speak to you?

    I personally don't think it's a good idea going back to see her, couldn't it just open up old wounds?
 
 
 
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