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    I was at a party a few days ago and a guy I knew of ended up kissing me. We spent a few hours together talking. A day later he messaged me on facebook however as he left to go on holiday we'd only exchange a message or two a day, and he seems to be drunk for most of it too.

    As for the conversations its brief and consists of some flirting, but he isn't particularly hinting whether he's interested or not. We said we would maybe go clubbing soon, but it wasn't a set plan. He hasn't asked for my number or to meet me either.

    So my question is are the feelings mutual or was this just a drunken thing? I don't want to ask him to meet up and push myself out there too much but would agree to meet if he asked, I'm just not sure if he has that intention in mind. I'm thinking that perhaps maybe after he's back he may try to arrange something but is there any way I can subtly find out if he actually likes me? Any advice would be really helpful.
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    He kissed you how sweet I hope you are ok
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    Man the **** up and ask him.
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    Ask him if he still wants to meet up when he gets back off holiday
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    Ask him if he still wants to meet up when he gets back off holiday
    We discussed going clubbing to my friends birthday in a few weeks, but I'm too shy to ask him to hang out alone, just unsure whether he'd make the first move. I find that I initiate most conversations as they die out but maybe I'm overthinking.
 
 
 
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