I really like this girl for a while now
But she has a boyfriend who lives in another country. (Long distance relationship 4+ yrs) She plans to marry him.
I told her how I feel. She said that I already know she has a boyfriend and that she loves him and that I shouldn't be selfish.
I said ok I'm sorry, but we can stay friends.
I'm finding it very difficult. But I want to stay friends with her because we get on really well together and she considers me her close friend.
I can't tell her how I feel again or it will ruin our friendship. I was already very close to ruining it the first time I told her. She said to me we can't be friends anymore because she doesn't want to see me sad. But I said to her don't worry I will be ok.
But I'm really not ok.
It's currently the summer holidays so I haven't seen her for 2 months and I won't see her until October.
I know she loves somebody else and I should accept that but I am always thinking about her.
I am always thinking what is she doing, how is she, etc. And I always get jealous and uncomfortable when she is talking to other guys. Why is that? How can I stop thinking like that? I know we are just friends but I get upset too easily. I over analyse every small thing and it's driving me insane.
I really don't know what to do.
Also, regarding her boyfriend, he is living in another country and they have only met once, yet they have been talking, skyping for 4yrs. I don't see them being together but she is determined she will.
Can somebody offer some good advice as to what I should do?
I like a girl who is in a long distance relationship..help? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 05-07-2014 15:01
- 05-07-2014 15:04
Back off thats what you need to do. Respect that she has another boyfriend, it sounds harsh but she loves him not you and you need to accept that.
- 05-07-2014 15:09
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- Welcome Squad
- 05-07-2014 17:20
I am in the same situation. My ex is going to marry and I feel terrible. Don;t worry make new girlfriends you find once only interested. Tell them your situations like normal girl friends. Whoever likes you will tell you that they like you and yiu ill have a good life partner. Don't hurry.Just study and in time you'll get a wonderful girl for yourself.
Keep confident.Chat with me.I'm here to save you. Don't worry.You are a really lovely boy.Good boy, aren't you?
Listen to me. Talk with me. Okay?