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    Im a grown woman at university ;
    everyone says. ;

    Your so cute.
    Aaw your sweet.
    Your a good girl.
    You have never smoked . Haha! you say you have? aww Isn't that sweet OOOk LOL i believe you .
    They reach out and grab my cheeks , as they "just cant help it".
    You sit at home read books.
    Your only friends with girls .
    You're the sort of person who cant do anything by herself ,You need friends to help you even choose which shoes to buy.

    Im getting very angry inside at all of this.
    Its the total opposite to who i really am.I feel patronised , everyone treats me different to everyone else like im some little kid.
    I dont know why
    I think part of it is because i look young but I cant help that.

    Apart from going full on Miley Cyrus , How can I come across the way I actually am to people?
    Only my close friends know the real me. AND not because Im more open with them, but because they have spent alot of time with me. Although even they said they had the same impressions at first, until they spoke to me more or went on a night out with me.
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    What is it that makes someone come across the way as I have described? , personality traits??????
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    Become a bit more sinful?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im a grown woman at university ;
    everyone says. ;

    Your so cute.
    Aaw your sweet.
    Your a good girl.
    You have never smoked . Haha! you say you have? aww Isn't that sweet OOOk LOL i believe you .
    They reach out and grab my cheeks , as they "just cant help it".
    You sit at home read books.
    Your only friends with girls .
    You're the sort of person who cant do anything by herself ,You need friends to help you even choose which shoes to buy.

    Im getting very angry inside at all of this.
    Its the total opposite to who i really am.I feel patronised , everyone treats me different to everyone else like im some little kid.
    I dont know why
    I think part of it is because i look young but I cant help that.

    Apart from going full on Miley Cyrus , How can I come across the way I actually am to people?
    Only my close friends know the real me. AND not because Im more open with them, but because they have spent alot of time with me. Although even they said they had the same impressions at first, until they spoke to me more or went on a night out with me.
    Why can't you just be yourself? There are so many people out there who don't get treated with such kindness. You should cherish it and be happy. Don't choose the wrong path and end up regretting it.
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    I get this a lot, to the point it ruined friendships because I got over-patrionised + then a huge shock when it came out I did non-cute things.

    I wouldn't change yourself just so you don't get it - I mean its the other people who have the problem of only being able to view you through stereotypes, not you being "cute". Clearly people who get to know you realise what you're like, so ignore stupid people and focus on your friends
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    in b4 This post is so cute
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im a grown woman at university ;
    everyone says. ;

    Your so cute.
    Aaw your sweet.
    Your a good girl.
    You have never smoked . Haha! you say you have? aww Isn't that sweet OOOk LOL i believe you .
    They reach out and grab my cheeks , as they "just cant help it".
    You sit at home read books.
    Your only friends with girls .
    You're the sort of person who cant do anything by herself ,You need friends to help you even choose which shoes to buy.

    Im getting very angry inside at all of this.
    Its the total opposite to who i really am.I feel patronised , everyone treats me different to everyone else like im some little kid.
    I dont know why
    I think part of it is because i look young but I cant help that.

    Apart from going full on Miley Cyrus , How can I come across the way I actually am to people?
    Only my close friends know the real me. AND not because Im more open with them, but because they have spent alot of time with me. Although even they said they had the same impressions at first, until they spoke to me more or went on a night out with me.

    Well I'm always called the 'good girl' but then I'm 14... :/ I can see what you mean it is pretty annoying but it is better to be this than the complete opposite. You could try to express this to your friends, but try to be happy with who you are!

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    It feels like if people called you a pretty girl. and then didn't believe you when you told them you are actually a boy, Just because you had a more feminine face or something
    You cant just live with that!
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    First world problem huh

    Stop dressing cute and stop acting cute than maybe you would not be cute, at least your problem is pretty small compared to what others go through in life.
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    Not trying to p you off but

    awww you actually sound soo adorable and cuteee :
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    People think I'm cute before they meet me - and then they realise I'm an intimidating, evil ***** which a wickedly dirty sense of humour. Then they stop calling me cute.
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    You sound absolutely filthy. Bet you've seen more snow than les Trois Vallees and more cocks than Bernard Matthews.

    Better now?
 
 
 
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