What should I do about my boyfriend before going to Uni? :(Watch
He's very mature, has a stable job- had the same one for years, is already in University, has his own hobbies too.
He's going to live in a house with friends in September and I'm going to live in halls- we'll only be about an hour away from each other- and it's not massively expensive to visit each other.
But I'm worried. not that he'll cheat, but that I don't know where the relationship is going, I'm just not sure where his head is at
I can't bring this up in conversation because everything has been going oh so well for the past few months and we've had future plans before which didn't work out and has started arguments in the past.
I can't really imagine a life without him anymore, I've been in a lot of relationships, thought I was in love, but when it's real, you just know and you can't walk away.
It's just we've already been together for 2 and a half years and in the past he has wanted to move in together but obviously money was an issue when I was younger. But now that he's going to live with friends, I'm not sure if I should be waiting 3 (maybe 4 if I want to do my masters) to maybe live with him. I just wish he would give me an indication on where the future is going
I don't really know what my intention of this post was- I guess just stranger's opinions? What do you think I should do? Break up with him? See how things take their course? Have you been in the same situation? What happened?
Seriously? Things are going "oh so perfect" and your first solution to the two of you living half an hour apart is to break up with him?? If I didn't see this with my eyes I would never have believed this.
If you love him that much, you'll try to make it work. There's no reason to break up a good relationship - try it out. If long distance doesn't work then at least you know you tried.
You should look at this thread: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show...04204&page=694
It's a really good thread to be a part of when you're at uni.