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    Okay, so I have this friend. They could be considered a best friend. (Just to clarify, I'm a female and he's a male)
    Recently, they've been requesting that I have anal sex with them. As in I put on a strapon and do him.
    As an everything virgin (including kissing), I'm not entirely comfortable with the idea. I mean, I don't want to upset them, but neither do I want to go anywhere near his butthole.

    Any suggestions as to how to get myself out of this sticky situation?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Okay, so I have this friend. They could be considered a best friend. (Just to clarify, I'm a female and he's a male)
    Recently, they've been requesting that I have anal sex with them. As in I put on a strapon and do him.
    As an everything virgin (including kissing), I'm not entirely comfortable with the idea. I mean, I don't want to upset them, but neither do I want to go anywhere near his butthole.

    Any suggestions as to how to get myself out of this sticky situation?
    Please don't tell me this is a troll post..

    Just be blunt. If he doesn't understand and it destroys your friendship, he is not a good friend. End off.
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    Just say you don't want to compromise your friendship.
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    Tell him to go **** himself.
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    yolo
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Okay, so I have this friend. They could be considered a best friend. (Just to clarify, I'm a female and he's a male)
    Recently, they've been requesting that I have anal sex with them. As in I put on a strapon and do him.
    As an everything virgin (including kissing), I'm not entirely comfortable with the idea. I mean, I don't want to upset them, but neither do I want to go anywhere near his butthole.

    Any suggestions as to how to get myself out of this sticky situation?
    Wait I'm confused is this one friend or a group of friends?
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    (Original post by TSA)
    Wait I'm confused is this one friend or a group of friends?
    One friend. Sorry, I tend to use non-gender specific pronouns without meaning to, which can be confusing
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    (Original post by hellodave5)
    Troll-ololol
    I'm not a troll.
    Trolls are ruining this site. Now I can't even post a thread with a genuine problem without being accused of being a troll. It's incredibly frustrating.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Okay, so I have this friend. They could be considered a best friend. (Just to clarify, I'm a female and he's a male)
    Recently, they've been requesting that I have anal sex with them. As in I put on a strapon and do him.
    As an everything virgin (including kissing), I'm not entirely comfortable with the idea. I mean, I don't want to upset them, but neither do I want to go anywhere near his butthole.

    Any suggestions as to how to get myself out of this sticky situation?
    One simple little word

    NO

    then walk away.

    That should do it - friends do not ask friends to do such things.
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    Friendzone him, do it firm and be hard about it, but friendzone him.
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    just politely explain that you don't want to do him up the but
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    Just say no, but also you could suggest to him to try buttplugs
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    (Original post by consumed by stuff)
    Tell him to go **** himself.
    Well-played lol!
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    Talk about friend in need....shove their opinion of fun up their arose..literally
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    You only have one life, just try it
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    Just express that you're not comfortable with the idea.
    If he is a good friend, he shouldn't pressure you.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm not a troll.
    Trolls are ruining this site. Now I can't even post a thread with a genuine problem without being accused of being a troll. It's incredibly frustrating.
    If you don't want to then send him my way
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    If you are not comfortable with it then don't do it.
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    (Original post by Rock Fan)
    If you are not comfortable with it then don't do it.
    would you do it? just out of interest

    and make sure you don't offend him!
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    (Original post by rileystringer)
    would you do it? just out of interest

    and make sure you don't offend him!
    I wouldn't do it to a girl personally.
 
 
 
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