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If polygamy became legal and accepted tomorrow, would you do it?

I know a guy who lives abroad with 4 wives, each have two/three kids n I find it ridiculous, but quite a few of my male mates upon hearing about this guy expressed how amazing they thought he was lol. So yeah be honest if anyone answers lol...

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Reply 1

TenOfThem

Original post by AyCaramba

One husband is enough

As for a second wife in the house - I would not be keen - I like my space

Reply 2

DorianGrayism

Tbh, it is hard enough finding one girlfriend at the moment.

It would take my entire life to find 4.

Reply 3

Mankytoes

Hell no, I can barely handle one girlfriend, sounds terrible, think how bitchy the girls would be with each other as well.

Reply 4

AyCaramba

Original post by TenOfThem

One husband is enough

As for a second wife in the house - I would not be keen - I like my space

Oh **** yeah all 4 or even 2 in one house would lead to fights i'd imagine too haha, this guy has a house for EACH WIFE though haha

Reply 5

TenOfThem

Original post by AyCaramba

Oh **** yeah all 4 or even 2 in one house would lead to fights i'd imagine too haha, this guy has a house for EACH WIFE though haha

oh, I see

Financially we would be far worse off in that scenario - not keen on that

Reply 6

AyCaramba

Original post by TenOfThem

oh, I see

Financially we would be far worse off in that scenario - not keen on that

yep, the attraction confuses me

Reply 7

AyCaramba

Original post by DorianGrayism

Tbh, it is hard enough finding one girlfriend at the moment.

It would take my entire life to find 4.

Ahaha especially 4 who don't mind being one of multiple girlfriends jeez

Reply 8

AyCaramba

Original post by Mankytoes

Hell no, I can barely handle one girlfriend, sounds terrible, think how bitchy the girls would be with each other as well.

Yep a true bitchfest, don't know how he does it lol

Reply 9

Rlove95

Never. The thought of sharing someone or being shared is horrible.

Reply 10

laylarose

No. I wouldn't change the way I want my relationship setup to be like purely because it became legal. I wouldn't want my significant other to be shared by any other people other than myself. Plus I have trouble getting even one person to like me, let alone four or five! :lol:

Reply 11

clonedmemories

I have friends of mine in poly relationships and I've seen that they can work really well for people. On the assumption that the definition of polygamy here includes both polygyny and polyandry, I might consider it if I ever ended up in a poly relationship myself (to which, at the moment, I would say I have no inclination either way). So maybe, is my answer.

Reply 12

iheartplums

I doubt it. One relationship is difficult enough

I think that in certain countries poverty / class probably has a large part to play in polygamous relationships. I can't imagine a woman from a wealthy background committing to a relationship where she is one of 4 or even 2 wives. On the other hand, it seems more likely that a woman who is from a poorer background, with no real prospects in life, would agree to being 1 of however many number of wives if it meant that she would be provided for and financially stable.