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i'm so confused...

HI, i'm so confused by all these thing s i'm experiencing.

I Fancy S for ages. He's the kinda guy that many girls will go for.I haven't hear him mentioning anything about any girl and he's still single. Recently I've been able to get to know him a lil bit more than i used to, and he sometimes would watch me when i'm doing work, or will look at me when i'm not noticing(apparently). so i thought he might have a thing for me so i keep fancying him until this morning when i heard something about him and the other girl, D, at work. D, N and I was working this morning. D said S walked her home on Saturday night after they went out with their mates and got a lil bit blazing. There were a couple of guys wanting to walk D home but D picked S cus they knew each other for long. (I'm not sure if S fancies D or not). So N said D and S should be together, and that should be beautiful blond couple. When i heard that i could say nothing but smile bitterly(i was really jealous). And D said she would't go for him because S is her twin brother's best mate, and that will be akward. so D obviously wouldn't mind going out with him if he's not her brother's mate. And i'm sure she could easily get him if she wants to. Then D, and N asked if i fancy anyone now, mind you the guys taht i know/usually see at the moment are only the guys at work. So i didn't tell cus i know they'll tell the others.

Now i'm not sure if i should keep this feeling (for him) or should i start to get over him. I'm not sure if he does have feeling for me, but if i manage to get over him i'll defenetely not like him back if ,oneday, he approach me as i'll not go for guys that let me down.

Reply 1

speedstacker

no one seems to bother to read this, so i guess i just gonna pack up my feeling for S and start to get over him. *sobb. i hate being dissapointed.

Reply 2

username47781

sorry but using letters is confusing why didnt you just use different names for people involved for example if your friend was called sam, maybe use john as a subsitute

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Hi.

I think you shouldn't start to get over him. In fact, I think you should send him an email and invite him out sometime. Or just a "hi" email.

He'll be glad that someone evidently cares for him after D dumped him because he's her bro's best friend.

Good luck.

Reply 4

DrNick2006

I'm sorry, but there were WAY too many letters in that- it was like trying to read algebra with all the Ds, Ns and Ss!

No, keep your feelings for him! There's no way he'd cross the best mate's sister boundary, and hence won't go out with D. As for any other lettered girl, I'm not sure. If you forget him, you may, that's MAY regret it!

Reply 5

User69701

If he is single then talk to him. I'm sorry I couldn't understand your poat with letters.

Reply 6

username47781

why not offer him out for a drink and get to know him

Reply 7

GarageMc

Just be open, you will never know otherwise!

Reply 8

Squelchy

At the end of the day, this guy S is single and D has already said she's not going to go out with him, so he's free and available.

If you want him then take a chance and go get him.

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

He's a guy who's been looking at you from time to time.

He's single and so are you.

The girl you're scared of who might be with him has stated that she can't.

Ok... :rolleyes:

Go talk to him, girl, and unless he seems absolutely revolted at being seen talking to you, you'll be fine.

Reply 10

speedstacker

cheers people! THe letters stands for their names. Sorry for confusing. Everyone seemed to say there's no need to get over him cus i still have the chance. But i really don't know what to do. He affected my mood :frown:

i just suddently want to go out to the pub and do crazy shopping. I'm already 19 but I never been to a pub before. Tomorro will be my first time. anyway, the other reason i want to get over him is because he'll be off to Uni soon while i'm still here having my year out. He and the other guys will come back every holiday to work - we all work together. There r plenty more girls out there and i don't think he'll want a long-distace thing. I don't even think i have a chance. I'm just so down thinking about these facts.

Reply 11

speedstacker

Anonymous

He'll be glad that someone evidently cares for him after D dumped him because he's her bro's best friend.

Good luck.

they weren't going out. Sry if i confused you :frown:

Reply 12

speedstacker

update:

Oh i just got told that D actually did went out with S when they were in Primary school!!!(shocked) And that's why D wouldn't want to go out with S again!