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    And now I'm terrified I won't get a reply. My life has been a mess since we broke up. Unless things go back to the way they were I won't be happy. Please keep me sane whilst I wait for a reply.
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    Sorry to hear what you're going through :hugs: But you shouldn't feel like you have to be with any particular person in order to be happy, IMO. I know the media keeps pushing the idea of "The One," but if you guys don't get back together I'm sure you'll meet plenty more guys just as suitable as, if not better than, your ex.
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    (Original post by iamintorture)
    And now I'm terrified I won't get a reply. My life has been a mess since we broke up. Unless things go back to the way they were I won't be happy. Please keep me sane whilst I wait for a reply.


    It feels like that at times but you need to be making yourself happy from within, not relying on someone else. I know it's incredibly hard but just focus on what you want to do for yourself and don't focus on this for now. :jumphug:
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    (Original post by Hal.E.Lujah)
    It feels like that at times but you need to be making yourself happy from within, not relying on someone else. I know it's incredibly hard but just focus on what you want to do for yourself and don't focus on this for now. :jumphug:
    I have tried to do that and it didn't work. I've travelled all over this summer I've met new people and passed my exams. Yet the only thing I can think of is that I want things to go back to how they used to be
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    I feel the same as you OP! I really miss my ex too. But I guess we need to learn to happy own our own, and not rely on someone else to make our lives meaningful! :hugs:
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    It's so painful
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    Just move on?
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    (Original post by AntisthenesDogger)
    Just move on?
    Im trying but I can't do it.
 
 
 
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