I really should have just had a field day at university BUT I didn't know who I was back then and was really shy...so I was just a wallflower. I'm pretty secure in myself these days, not shy at all - quietly confident.
Problem is I work full time and have one day off per week. Dating work colleagues is a no-go 1) because I've done that before and learnt my lesson and 2) I don't fancy any of my colleagues 3) Just no.
I don't know how to meet guys...I don't have close 'girl-friends' - just acquaintances and some good friends who work too or who have moved away (''adult'' friendships i.e. best friends turned e-mail correspondents!).
So I'm thinking - join a club and do something for a few hours on my day off (le sigh). But what type of clubs do people my age (early to mid 20's) go to? I'm not into clubbing or nightlife and the type of guys you generally meet there aren't looking for a relationship (well, not one that lasts more than an evening) - I'm thinking more of a day time club...but what? And where do you find a directory (wtf? I know) of such clubs?
I've looked at a couple of dating sites but the guys aren't my type - they're either really outgoing and full of themselves or the complete opposite. I think maybe dating sites are a bad idea...
I just want to meet a sane guy who has some ambition, manners, intellect, respect, a job and maybe looks quite nice.
Seriously...this is difficult. Ideas?