Should I give up looking or try harder ?
Should i try for love or let love come to me? Watch
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- 10-07-2014 10:31
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- 10-07-2014 10:35
Good question. I think most people would tell you that love comes when you least expect it, that you'll find someone when you're not looking, etc., but I think that's tosh. If you want to meet someone, go out and meet people. Take ownership of it. I don't think leaving such an important part of your life up to chance is the best decision.
- 10-07-2014 10:37
I would say just settle, it's not as bad as it sounds.
- 10-07-2014 14:40
Bit of both.
You let someone you really click with come into your life. Then when there is a chemistry, you try for that person. Don't shy away from your intentions, don't miss your window to woo.
As someone said you can maximise the odds by going out to meet people, and developing yourself to be interesting, confident and attractive (qualities helpful for "clicking" with someone). However, there's only so much you do and you musn't try to force something with every girl who gives you the time of day. You musn't be desperate. If someone just doesn't like you back, don't become bitter - let them go with the confidence that you're still good on your own.
Essentially, be chilled but not lacklustre.
- 10-07-2014 14:47
depends on what type of person you are, the general demographic of the area ( I.E you can't play the number game in a small community or in a very upper middle class area) and how willing you are to work towards a relationship, not to mention what you've learned from past experience