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I think you will find plenty of girls that do have casual sex/would do it then you will find plenty of girls who wouldnt take part in casual sex and only have relationship sex, its all down to a individual not gender in my opinion. Same with guys not all guys are looking for just sex. Stereotypes can cause you to judge unfairly.
Imagining I was single (for argument's sake), atm I'm very neutral about casual sex. I don't think I'm missing out on it, but I feel no strong disinclination or moral objection to it either.
I'm quite sexually confident so I don't think nerves or shyness would hold me back if I was single. However, I do feel that I want to have some kind of a meaningful connection, remain safe and get decent sex where I orgasm. I'm not sure casual sex with a stranger can fulfill those criteria!
But casual sex with a friend, would risk developing feelings and getting into a mess.
Therefore the only kind of casual sex I can imagine getting into, would be sex at the beginning of a relationship / in the dating stage. Where I have a connection with someone I can reasonably trust and will "look after" me but where it isn't compromising a friendship. But some people would say that's in a relationship, rather than "casual". I'm also wary of this as I know there are people who fake feelings/ a connection just to have sex in the dating stage. If this happened to me I'd feel ****ed off, not for the sex, but for the being fooled about the prospect of a relationship. Whereas, though it may be a crude test, you can use withholding sex to weed those ones out quickly.
No sex is completely safe.
Sex in a committed relationship is the safest.