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    Ive been having sex with my girlfriend for about 2 and a half years but she has never orgasmed. she has a few times through oral earlier on in the relationships but never since. My ex girlfriend was able to orgasm with me so that at least reassures me that my manhood isnt just too small.

    Thing is I do the same sort of thing with this girlfriend as I did my ex, she just doesnt seem as in to it as my ex was. She says shes had enough usually after about 15 minutes, Im not sure if she really does or if shes just had enough.

    Should I be worried?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ive been having sex with my girlfriend for about 2 and a half years but she has never orgasmed. she has a few times through oral earlier on in the relationships but never since. My ex girlfriend was able to orgasm with me so that at least reassures me that my manhood isnt just too small.

    Thing is I do the same sort of thing with this girlfriend as I did my ex, she just doesnt seem as in to it as my ex was. She says shes had enough usually after about 15 minutes, Im not sure if she really does or if shes just had enough.

    Should I be worried?
    Well yeh, its been 2 and a half years. Change what you do bro
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    You suck.
    Or maybe you don't.

    Perhaps you should?
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    Hmm it depends on the girl I guess, with my current girlfriend I get her to the point of orgasm and when she thinks she is about to explode she cannot! The reason behind this is because she has never experienced orgasms before and I know one day we will get there.This is by oral btw. So do not worry at all or if you are just ask her about how she feels? Maybe her sex drive is low?
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    Start trying to pleasure her manually and orally, not via penetration. Do a bit of reading on some techniques.
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    put some Marvin Gaye on
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    put some ke$ha on.

    bite her neck?
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    (Original post by fnatic NateDestiel)
    put some ke$ha on.
    he's goin down, she's yellin timber
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    (Original post by uuuuuhhhhhhhhhhh)
    he's goin down, she's yellin timber
    weaaaaaaaawwwww, I was thinking:

    (Original post by Ke$ha)
    But now my song’s on the radio,
    And you see my face everywhere you go,
    I thought I’d call just to let you know,
    I’ve been thinking of you,
    Thinking of you, ooh-ooh.
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    (Original post by uuuuuhhhhhhhhhhh)
    he's goin down, she's yellin timber
    lol
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    (Original post by uuuuuhhhhhhhhhhh)
    he's goin down, she's yellin timber
    That's just dirty mayn,
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    Thanks for the Kesha sing along. Possiblyy suggests my thread was about as entertaining as my sexual performance.
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    Just because your ex enjoyed it doesn't mean your current girlfriend will like the exact same thing. Every girl has different turn ons etc. Maybe talk to her about it? Ask her if she'd prefer doing things differently or trying anything new. Don't feel bad about it
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    Lol your girl is def getting it from somewhere else then. 2 years and you've never made her ***? And she's still with you? Yh, jerome down the road is definitely satisfying her
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    (Original post by Over2you)
    Lol your girl is def getting it from somewhere else then. 2 years and you've never made her ***? And she's still with you? Yh, jerome down the road is definitely satisfying her
    Dont be daft. Some girls lives dont revolve around sex, she may enjoy it or may not, some girls cant *** easy ect. many reasons why. You cant say she getting it elsewhere what a stupid stupid typical lad comment. Grow up dude.
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    Some girls just don't orgasm through penetration but they do through clit stimulation. I doubt it is your sexual ability or your manhood. I would say though, if you're concerned you should talk through your concerns with your girlfriend so that she can reassure you. Alternatively, if you don't want to talk about your concerns, maybe you can approach the subject of things you'd both like to explore. If you explore different things you're more likely to find what pushes her button, so to speak
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    You're not being aggressive enough.

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