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    Just wondered how common it is to need artificial lubrication. My long term gf and I don't need it all the while, but quite often. Just wondered if we are atypical..
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    Very common.

    Just find one you like, and use as required.
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    Can feel like a bit of a failure in foreplay mind..
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    I'd imagine it's very common but everyone is different. Some women have enough natural lubrication all the time. Some women don't even if really turned on. But also sometimes outside factors can cause her to dry up (like if exposed to air for a while or something) and that can cause pain so of course the lube would be needed then.
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    (Original post by Zarek)
    Can feel like a bit of a failure in foreplay mind..
    Give the ego a rest. If you both want penetrative sex, now, the foreplay has been fine regardless of whether everything is slippery.
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    Women take longer than men to become physically aroused and ready for penetrative sex. Gotta pre-heat the oven nom sayin.
 
 
 
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