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    Hi, I have a slight problem and I need help on it asap,
    So I've been dating this guy for a few months, and to be honest he actually loves me a lot. But the thing is I can't get myself to love him back, he begged me to say yes when he asked me out so I just couldn't say no and I thought maybe I'll love him on the way but that never happened. I know I'm so silly for letting it go on for months but I just didn't know what to do. How do I break up with him?


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    (Original post by Nourm131)
    Hi, I have a slight problem and I need help on it asap,
    So I've been dating this guy for a few months, and to be honest he actually loves me a lot. But the thing is I can't get myself to love him back, he begged me to say yes when he asked me out so I just couldn't say no and I thought maybe I'll love him on the way but that never happened. I know I'm so silly for letting it go on for months but I just didn't know what to do. How do I break up with him?


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    Its a tricky one. Especially as he really loves you, as that is a raw emotion amd sadly rare. But if you dont love him back, if you stay with him, you're not only kidding him. But yourself to. Why did yiu leave it so long? He may have begged you but you should have said no, because now your both hurting. But hey, what's done is done and there's no use dwelling on it, so you need to find a way out. You may not see it, but there's a likelihood that this guy is aware that yiu don't love him back (us guys get these vibes too). You just have to tell him. But I wouldnt say "I dont love you" that would be heart wrenching. The "I'm not ready for a serious relationship" route is a much better one to go down (but keep it on the non-corny side). Agree to still be friends (unless it'd be awkward). Just make sure this guy knows its not his fault (but NO it's not you its me rubbish, please).
    Good luck.

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