So a girl I like invited me out last night to join her and her work colleagues, who I dont know, for a night out, after messaging each other for a while and me trying to get her out on a date.
Anyway when I arrived she was pretty tipsy, very happy to see me, even telling guys that were trying it with her that she was with me.
She grabbed me and we went to the other side of the bar/club and basically danced together and kissed a lot. Thought things were going well and after a while we went back to the main group and well it felt like she ignored me for the rest of the night. She was then dancing with other random guys (not kissing) and well not giving me much attention.
At the end of the night I off course stayed with her to make sure she went home OK. I did try to talk to her and basically said why invite me down, kiss etc then jus ignore me. I tried to not come across as being possesive as really she can do what she wants, but i dunno it didnt feel right to me???? I would not have done the same to her.
Shes clearly playing some games but when I tell her Im a straight up guy, no games, just wanna spend some time together and get to know her, she insists she isnt and does want to see me again.
Do I just ignore her from now on? Sucks though as Ive spent a while trying to get her out and it all feels like a waste if shes not interested after all.
Have you done any of these?