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    okay so basically there is this boy i have been talking to for about 6 months now and i used to really really like him and we've met up a couple of times but its just been so long and nothing has happened and now recently one of my other good friends has started talking to me and has admitted he really likes me and stuff and i just don't know what to do.
    i really love talking to this guy and we have loads of stuff in common but i feel horrible how ive been talking to the other guy for ages and now im not sure if i like him anymore.
    i also have a bad feeling that all of my friends are going to hate me if i say i don't like him and they will say i was just using him and leading him on but i cant help how i feel right? ughh could just really do with some advice please
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    okay so basically there is this boy i have been talking to for about 6 months now and i used to really really like him and we've met up a couple of times but its just been so long and nothing has happened and now recently one of my other good friends has started talking to me and has admitted he really likes me and stuff and i just don't know what to do.
    i really love talking to this guy and we have loads of stuff in common but i feel horrible how ive been talking to the other guy for ages and now im not sure if i like him anymore.
    i also have a bad feeling that all of my friends are going to hate me if i say i don't like him and they will say i was just using him and leading him on but i cant help how i feel right? ughh could just really do with some advice please
    Why do you feel horrible about how you've been talking to the other guy?
    Also, this boy, the one you've been talking to for 6 months, does he still like you? Why haven't you seen him more often?
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    Why do you feel horrible about how you've been talking to the other guy?
    Also, this boy, the one you've been talking to for 6 months, does he still like you? Why haven't you seen him more often?
    because one of my friends had a massive go at me about how im using him but im not coz i actually like him and yeah he does still like me i just haven't met up with him more often because he is a really awkward person and it always takes like 2 day just to organise meeting up because he never wants to just hang out it always has to be going somewhere like the cinema
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    You need to decide who you really like. It's hard when you're torn, do you stick with what appears to be a sinking ship or jump preemptively and risk drowning all together?
    You like him, and he likes you. You should try to make a considerable effort to meet up with him and talk this out, it won't fix itself.
    Do you like your other boy to the point where you can see yourself starting something with him?
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    (Original post by MattCSidd)
    You need to decide who you really like. It's hard when you're torn, do you stick with what appears to be a sinking ship or jump preemptively and risk drowning all together?
    You like him, and he likes you. You should try to make a considerable effort to meet up with him and talk this out, it won't fix itself.
    Do you like your other boy to the point where you can see yourself starting something with him?
    thank you so much for the help it has really made me think about things..... urm and yeah i do like this guy alot, well enough that i could see something happening but im worried if i turn around and say i like him and not the other boy anymore all my friends will properly judge me and get annoyed at me
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    (Original post by [email protected])
    okay so basically there is this boy i have been talking to for about 6 months now and i used to really really like him and we've met up a couple of times but its just been so long and nothing has happened and now recently one of my other good friends has started talking to me and has admitted he really likes me and stuff and i just don't know what to do.
    i really love talking to this guy and we have loads of stuff in common but i feel horrible how ive been talking to the other guy for ages and now im not sure if i like him anymore.
    i also have a bad feeling that all of my friends are going to hate me if i say i don't like him and they will say i was just using him and leading him on but i cant help how i feel right? ughh could just really do with some advice please
    Just send him a text asking him how he is and if he wants to go and watch a film with you..

    If he says no... Move on and go for your mate instead...

    Simple..
 
 
 
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